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I talk to this girl a lot and get along well- and just from speaking to her on Instagram- I've realised we have a lot in common- we even came across each other via the same interest. I'd love to start a relationship with her- issue is, she's in a whole other country (she's American, whereas I'm in the UK), I've never actually personally met her, have spoken to her through Instagram Live though so know what she looks and sounds like (so I know she's not a catfish or anything) and also I thought long-distance relationships have some sort of connection to bad luck. I genuinely think she could be the perfect fit for me though, because:
We both came across each other through the same interest, Strictly Come Dancing (well, the American version, Dancing with the Stars in her case)- and also both having fan accounts for the show.
She's mentioned on a few occasions that she doesn't wear makeup; I also generally prefer natural beauty myself.
We both have quite a bizarre sense of humour.
We're both quite shy and reserved but express ourselves through social media.
She's never dated anyone before- just had crushes
She never really had that many friends either; and scarily coincidentally, her best friend since they were young kids kind of abandoned her too (which is exactly something which happened to me)
We also both think that there are too many idiots on Twitter (e.g. those who generalise certain groups as being evil- we both agree that those tweets could affect the mental health of the groups in question).
We both get nervous easily.
Now, having all of these things in common is just plain strange- I think she could be the perfect fit for me, but am unsure how to start a long distance relationship. Any tips? and also do you think that she'd be a good relationship for me? (link)
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In response to your first question, Tips on starting this are: do not force/rush anything, have a conversation about it with her and place it all in the hypothetical and there you should ask about if she feels ready for a long distance relationship. DO NOT fall victim to the myths that long distance relationships don't work. These relationships can work if there is patience, understanding, love and care for each other. Patience is KEY for this to work especially when the distance gets to you at times. REMEMBER THAT IT TAKES WORK TO MAKE IT WORK!!!
In response to your second question, I think she seems great for you especially since you have so much in common, it's like being in a relationship with your best friend. If it feels great to your gut feelings and instincts then go for it! I wish you the best and a very prosperous relationship.
Sincerely yours,
Denelle xoxo
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This is my first time using this site; II live in Canada. Male. I am just getting over a bad breakup (only 2 days ago) with someone I was and still am in love with. However, a friend of mine has been helping me through this and whenever I talk to him I feel my face heat up a bit and I feel... strange?
I can’t tell if I’m developing feelings for this friend (which seems weird to me seeing as how I still definitely am in love with my ex). Any ideas about my feelings? (link)
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There are many possibilities here. There is a possibility that you are drawn to your friend because he represents that way of hope/light in your situation as he presents himself as a very good and understanding friend. In other words, he is everything that you need at the moment especially at this point in your life. It is okay to feel how you feel but you must also reflect on if the feelings are genuine or because "he's being nice to me." You have to figure out if you like him for who he is or what he does for you. This should be a time of discernment and serious self reflection as you figure out how you really feel. I can't tell you how you feel, because only you will know but what I can advise is that you think through everything. Get in touch with you and your feelings and always trust your gut/instincts.
It is from there you will understand how you truly feel and why you feel how you feel.
And it is important that you know it is okay to feel how you feel.
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