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Q: i have had past relationships, still a virgin tho, and we used to kiss alot.. but it kinda felt unatural like i didn't really want to do it but i did it anyways. my fiancee' and i haven't done anything like kissing, sex, or anything like that, so when we do kiss i want it to kind of impress him. so i was wondering if there were any tips to tease him a lil' with kissing and to be a good kisser.. i know practice and it'll come natural.. but i just don't want to seem like a total goof. thank you
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Always remember that if you both love eachother, he'll be so happy to kiss you he won't be focussing on how well you do it. Also, remember that each person kisses differently, so when you're in a new relationship it's almost as if you have to start from scratch anyway. Don't act nervous about the situation, and just enjoy it as things flow naturally. Some tips I have are;
-Start out easy and the intensity will naturally increase
-Try gently sucking on his upper/lower lip.
-Close your eyes. You don't have to the entire time, but it would be kind of weird to open your eyes and see them staring at you right?
-Gently grab the back of their head and play with their hair.
-If you feel comfortable you can even gently use your tongue. No need to like shove it down their throat, but make like circles on their tongue and things like that. A lot of people don't do this in the beginning, so if it freaks you out don't worry about it.
-Be relaxed. Don't freak out...enjoy it!
-Little things like I said before such as sucking on his lip, or even pulling back for a second or two and seeing what he does. A lot of times this will get him worked up and he'll be like hey...we stopped?!?!? What just happened, but when you start kissing again he relaxes...but it's really funny and flirty.
Just try different little techniuqes. Each person is different, and therefor likes different styles of kissing. Your guy will hint, or tell you what way he likes best. You can sometimes tell by his reaction.
I hope I helped! If you have anymore questions feel free to PM me!
-Definitely_Indecisive
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Q: well.. i like this boyy at school. All my friends like him but he dont like them & im new at school and already very popular. And me & him talk all the time and sit with each other on the bus sometimes, but theres this other guy i kinda like & i know he likes me. he walks me to my classes and meets me at my locker in the morning and at the end of the day.he's cute too & more my age. Im scared that if i end up with the one guy ill lose the other.
The guy i sit with on the bus is a senior and very quite. the other guy is a junior and is on the football team and outgoing & drives. Im a freshman & i like guys who are active & can drive so we could go places, but im confused....... GEEE GOLLY
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It seems like the junior is most compatable with you. When it comes down to it you should go with what your heart says, but based on what you've said I would go with the junior. He seems like he'd be more fun, and that he is very considerate and sweet since he waits by your locker. Good luck!!
Later,
Definitely_Indecisive
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Hey! I'm a fifteen-year-old girl, and I've been told I give pretty good advice. If you have any questions...feel free to ask!
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Gender: Female Occupation: Student Age: 15 Member Since: November 20, 2006 Answers: 2 Last Update: December 11, 2006 Visitors: 1286
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