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I don't know what else to do, this might be long but I really need help.
I'm 18/f and my bf recently broke up with me since I decided to respect my religion and not "do" things with him when he comes to visit my country next. (We both have diff. religions). So when he was breaking up (he did it online, he lives in another country, he studies there), he threatened me with things like "i will f*** you up so bad", "you will SO regret this", "i will show you what it means to get me angry", "you SO will suffer" and so on. And he will do those things when he visits his family (his family lives where I live..). He knows which uni I go to, and knows where my house is. He beat up his ex-gf before and told me the story as a "warning" not to piss him off.. I'm terrified, I think he plans on physically hurting me. There's about 13 more days till he gets here.. I've already planned on talking to my uni counselor about this but I need help from people around my age. I'm not strong to cope with this, I haven't slept for days getting nightmares of him coming after me, I've considered calling the airport and notifying them not to let him in the country but if I do that, I'd just make a fool out of myself. Please please please, I'm really panicking =*(
Thanks for your time, I appreciate it greatly.
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well hun we can give you advice, but we can't protect you, talk to your parents, friends and Police, threats are taken very seriously especially if he has a history of abusing women. Dont think that talkign to the Police is the chicklen way out. Its the smart way out. Dont be panicking either, because thats what he may be tryng to do is scare you.
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Well, i have had about a 4 week realationship with him, and yesterday he text messaged me that he wants to break up. i said fine thats ok with me...(even though it really wasn't,he asked to be friends and i tired to be his friend but he seemed to find other things more interesting. then i confronted him and asked him why he broke up with me....he says it's a long story. then when we are coming to the buses he was talking and every body was asking him why he broke up with me and first he tolod them to tell me that it was because he wanted to turn "gay" for a day or a week or forever....i am a brunnette newyorican,(no offense to blondes) but i turned around and told him that i was not an idiot! and then my best guy friend was trying to tell me but my Ex kept pulling him down...so then my guy friend told me what it was...he broke up with me to go out with a 16 year old girl. how do i get him back? A nd how do i get him back for good? plz help!!!!sorry about then length though : ) (link)
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I don't know, but if someone says to me that their gay. Does that mean i was that bad of a bf that they decided to turn gay? lol Anyway we don't have any secrets or tricks on how to keep someone for "good". Now to get him back, thats up to him, you can't force people to like you or go out with you. Just move on and you will find someone better.
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