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there is this guy that i like and every one thinkls that he likes me and i want to find out but i do not no how.PLEASE HELP!!!

just ask him or have one of your friends do it.

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i am a guy....
well i like someone and they dont like me and so i wanna not like them but i just cant stop liking them see if you can help...which i doubt you can... but oh well

just dont think about it?? idk!!

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well i like someone and they dont like me and so i wanna not like them but i just cant stop liking them see if you can help...which i doubt you can... but oh well

heyy..dont doubt me..anyways..if you dont want to like them then just talk to other guys more and dont think about that one guy..who knows. but if you really like that one guy you cant like..just make yourself stop liking him. lyl..becca

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I like this person but they dont like me...what should i do to make them like me?

um..i dont know..but whatever you do just be yourself..and like..dont be mean and stuff..just talk to them alot..but not too much where you become annoying..lol lyl.becca

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hey becca, i heard you were great at giving advice so here it goes.
ok theres this guy that i went out with and then he dumped me for no reason. i want to hate him for being a jerk, but i cant because everytime i see him or his sn pops up i get the chills and i smile....but i want to hate him so bad....i dont know weather to still like him....or go and find someone else to like...

well..i cant tell you whether to like him or not..becuase thats YOUR choice..but if you did still like him thats okay. and if you dont..then find someone else to like. but i mean you dont have to like somebody..like sometimes its fun just to be single.haha ask me if you need anymore help! *bec

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Hey Becca! I like this guy but I am not sure if he likes me. I think he knows I like him too. All of my friends keep telling me to ask him out but im not totally sure. Wut shuld I do???

well ive never realy been a big fan of the girls asking out the guys..but do what YOU want to do. if you dont want to ask him out and for him to ask YOU out..then just flirt with him and make sure that he knows you like him. ask me if you need anymore help! *becca

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i like this girl and im starting to like this other girl and i dont know who 2 ask out.... what should i do???

well ask out which ever one you like better..but dont ask one of them out because that wouldnt be fair or good to ask one out but still kinda like the other one. well hope i helped! *becca

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ok i have this ex bf that is the biggest jerk ever but i still kinda like him. i dont know what to do. i just miss him when he wasnt such a jerk. i think he likes his ex gf. agh im so confused. like its so weird cuz i cant get over him and i want to get over him. But everytime i start to like another guy i dont get "butterflies" haha...like i just dont like him as much as my ex. what do i do?
~~VERY CONFUSED AND MAD!~~

butterflies! haha i know who this is! well i know exactly whats goin on and well,if you still like him thats fine. some poeple might get mad,but thats their problem. and well if he still likes his ex (ahh!) then well,we have a problem. but you cant be too sure.just wait and see and then decide. lyl *bec

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hi becca i dont kno you but i live in california
wel my boyfriend and i were together with some friends all day today and i wanted to kiss him but i dont think he got the message.. then at the very end of the day were sitting on the couch lights dimmed and everything and the doorbell rings and its time to go ... he reaches over and gives me a hug then tries to kiss me.. i turned my head because i didnt want my first kiss to be a good bye kiss.. was that the right thing?? do you think he be mad??


thanks..
**never been kissed**

well i dont know if he is mad or not..but if you didnt want your first kiss to be a good-bye kiss then you did the right thing. if you didnt really care,then you shouldnt of turned your head. and i dont think he will be mad..just a little embararassed. so be nice to him the next couple of days and try not to bring that subject up...and about the whole california thing..THATS AWESOME!..i so wanna live there.haha ask me if you need any help *becca

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hey i think that my boyfriend likes someone else and is going to break up with me...i dont know weather to find out through one of my friends or like just make a desision to dump him before he dumps me or just wait for him to dump me if he is.....help me

well if you dont really like him anymore then break up with him..and dont just assume that he likes someone else..find out for sure.if you need anymore help just ask me!*bec

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im goin out with this girl but i think i like this other girl. i dont wanna go out with some and like some 1 else..... wut do i do???

break up with the girl you are goin out with because you dont like her anymore. its not good to lie. and then ask out the other girl if you like her.:-) becca

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becca... your give such great advice... I look up to YOU, and that is why i know i can trust YOU... you see, i am in love with my best friends boy friend, not lust, LOVE. His name makes my heart thump. thump. thump. last weekend we all went to a movie, and my the friend went to go get some popcorn with everybody else--me and her bf held back..the thing is, i think i made a HUGE mistake---i tried to kiss him. not PECK--like, tongue and EVERYTHING. I LOVE HIM--and the thing that surprised me most is that he followed through..we are secretly dating and having--s...e...you know where im getting at. The only problem is my friendd mother found out...and she is not going to tell her because she thinks I should, HELP ME!!!

wow..umm okay...well its never good to lie..so tell your friends what happened..and that you like her boyfriend..come clean..in the end you will be glad you did. you will still get in a lot of trouble..but not as much as you would if you didnt tell the truth..IM me if you need any more help:-)

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there is this guy i like. I really want to tell him that i like him, but if i do tell him i could make a fool of myself. There is a chance he might like me. well there is probably no chance he would like me but i would like to get my feelings out and tell him that i have liked him for a while. It might be a bad idea though, so what do i do?

just do what you want..hes just a guy. tell him you like him if you want to.:-)

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i like this guy ive gone out with him before. but i dont know if i like him or not. should i ask him out or what

dont ask him out..just flirt with him and wait for him to ask you out..and if you like him say yes. if he doesnt ask you out soon then tell him you like him. lol something like that.lyl becca

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my boyfriends friends are really nosy, and ive talked to them..but is the saying boys will be boys the way i should handle it?

eh..dont listen to them,boys will be boys..just go with it! lyl..becca

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hey i like this girl i think she likes me so if ths girl likes me she would tell me or else it would make me look stupid if she didnt like me u know hoo this is becca #24 Km

#24Km? ummm whatever that is i dont remember..sorry:-) but tell me who this is.umm---lets see here..just tell her..i mean you are gunna be embarrased at some point or another...and you never know..she might like you too. so just tell her and see what happens.hope i helped! *bec

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ok i like this guy, and he was really nice to me and all. but then he asked out this girl who i hated in the first place. i also like someone else but this someone else already likes another person. so i dont know weather for the first person i like to become single again or try to get the other person i like to like me back .

uhh...go for which ever one you like better? lol sorry it was confusing! hope i helped..*becca

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hey i like a girl alot and i go to ISMS and i dont know whether just to ask her to the dance or just plain ask her out...should i go slow?

mmmmm..just do what YOU want to do...and whatever you are most comfortable with.its your decision..hope i helped! *bec

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hey i wanna ask a girl out but i dont know if shes ready. how do i find out?

umm....get your friends to ask her. lol or just ask her yourslef...*becCa

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i like this girl but but i dont no if she likes me and i really wanna go out with her again becuase i miss her.... wut do i do?

umm...well you could tell her that you like her..(but dont tell her if she has a boyfriend) then just find out what happens..all she could do to you is say no..hope i helped! love,bec

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