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heythere gorgeous;;
My name is Abby Rose;
Im nothing special..i go to highschool,i'm catholic, i have parents who don't seem to understand, friends who seem to live for drama, and a boyfriend who i love dearly. So if i can help with anythingg, i'd love to!

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AR


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Location: Texas
Occupation: School =]
Age: 14
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so to make a LONG story short, i met a guy from the town next to me (same grade & age), we hit it off, hung out a few times and then suddenly we stopped talking for like a week (for no reason, we were just never around at the same time). now i have discovered that he is going for some girl in my school a yera younger then me. it sort of upset me at first, but then i was like "whatever" (it's not like we were dating so he can do what he wants). but anyways the thing that bugs me is that he seemed so nice, funny (and he's really cute) so i can't understand why someone who i thought was into me just suddenly changed his mind. i really don't have a lot of experience with boys (i'm 17 and have only had 1 boyfriend, which was in middle school, so that doesn't count). i guess i am just asking for a clue as to why he would have done this? he was really a nice person so i can't really figure it out. also, how do you meet guys over the summer. i mean like ithout saying go to camp, becuase i'm not. i only work, and it's just with 2 other girls. thanks! (link)
heythere! =]
You got your hopes up, which who wouldn't it proably seemed perfect. No you weren't going out, but i can see why you're mad..can't he at least give you a heads up?! But i have no doubt in my mind that he didnt think about you before going out with this other gurl. Reasons why he could have is because of the different town/school/work situation or because maybe he didnt see you enough or even because he thought you were too good for him. The one boyfriend thing, you should not be worried about..you'll have time=] But i would deff. talk to him and in a least-embarassing-way possible ask him..why? and then let it go. Some greeat places for guys in the summer is public pools and malls...that's why guys go to malls, they're looking for s!! =]=]

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AR


I am Thai. 24 years old. Male.

I have been talking to this girl for about 2 months. We have a lot in common and seems like she enjoys talking to me as she laughs at my joke (she sais I am so funny). she always tells me about her stuffs like her works, friends,ect. Most of the times I am the one who call her for a talk almost everyday (I also text to her everyday). She calls me sometimes, but, recently, she asked me like: "why didn't you call me yesterday?" or "Why you call me so late? I'm waiting". I went out with her 2 times within last 2 weeks. Both times were great (just as I thought). I will go out with her again on next week. Today, this morning, she texted to me like: "Thanks for everything you have done for me and for good feelings you have been given to me". These are what happening now.
Let me take you back to 8 months earlier. I met her and I called her just like what I'm doing now. At the time she had boyfriend(s). She talked to me nicely and also with another guys. I think that time she was really flirting to me without thinking of any serious relationship. I asked her to go out several time, but she did not. After I paused talking to her for 5 months, she called me and told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. Thereafter, I have been talking to her again since then.
My questions are:
1) Does she really like me this time or just flirt to me again?
2) What does the SMS mean(Thank you for...)? It sounds like she wants to break up our relationship to me. It really bothers me.
Please advice me. I appreciate for all suggestions. Thanks. (link)
Hi Thai! =]
Wow. I get a feeling that she does like you for the reason of: her wanting to talk to you because it takes time and thought of what you're going to say to someone on the phone. Also the text she sent you i honestly think she's not trying to end your realationship with you, but she's trying to explain her feelings which..are really good :)!I would have thought she was loyal, because when you asked her out 8 months ago she declined your invitation because she had a boyfriend..but the only reason i get a negative vibe is because the whole flirty attitude and boyfriend(s) deal.
So in conclusion, in my opinon i would def. be straight foward with her. As hard as it might seem just asking her, "so are we actually in a relationship?" could relive alot of hard thinking you've had to do lately, and also depending on her response could lead you to your next action!

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AR




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