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Well, I'm 15, in Highschool and I'm on the Drumline and all that stuff. Lemme know if you have a problem, I'm always the one my friends come to. I know a lot about a lot of things so, try me.

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well i like this boy in my class. He`s really cool and smart and funny nd everything , i want to ask him out but i feel that he wont like me or that he`ll say no and it will make it worse for me knowing that he`ll never go out with me. can you give me some adivce?! thanks alot (link)
hey, well, i asked this guy to my winter dance last night and he said yes, i dont know him to well, i was i was hoping that we could get to know eachother better..long story short, just ask, the worst thing- he says no, you'll be okay, atleast you'll have the experience and that'll make you stronger. He could say yes too. but ask about hanging out, not going out officially.
good luck!


Hi, I was just browsing the net when I came across this! So heres the
thing, I'm sure it's over told, I really like this guy at my school. I
find that he's hard to read though, like somedays he'll act like he's
really into me, and likes me, but others he doesn't say a word and acts
uninterested. So, here's what makes me think he is; He teases me in a
flirty way sometimes, and seems to like it when I laugh. He remembers
stuff that we've talked about before, even if I said it like in front
of the class, or mumbled it under my breath. This one time in class, he
was talking and when he said the word "amazing" he was definitly
looking at me. Sometimes he'll smile at me in the halls. When I needed help
with the copier he helped me, and seemed sort of nervous, more so
because it was just us, rather than around all of his freinds and class
mates. I also think he might have been staring at me a couple of times,
it's yet to be proven. But, we really have no connection outside of
school. Somedays, it's like he hasn't noticed me in the room, or
sneaking looks at him, I want him to see me! I've been flirting as
discretly yet noticably as humanly possible! I think he's noticed, but I
think maybe were both being to shy. I would ask him out, but I really
don't want to be rejected from him. I really like him so much. I don't
know too much about him either, I know that he hunts, likes fish (as in
pets), plays football, and loves poker and card games. He knows that
I'm in Tae Kwon Do, and am a vegetarian, and also that I've volunteered,
he even said I was special when I said I volunteered without a
sarcastic tone. I think he likes me too, but he's making it hard, or maybe I'm
not reading him right, either way, please help!

Hoplessly in Love (link)
Well, this sounds like it's been going on for a while, and obviously he wont make the first move. so here are the choices:
A. Neither of you do anything about it and nothing happens.
B. You say something to him. WORST- he rejects you and it's awkward for a bit. it'll get better tho. BEST- something happens.
:-) Bee Happy




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