My name's Chelsea, I'm 14...I love music, but not country, rap, or r&b, so basically just all kinds of rock...my favorite bands are Matchbox Twenty, Aerosmith, and My Chemical Romance. I can probably give advice on just about anything, i've been through some weird times in my life, and if i can help, i will.
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E-mail: chelsea794613@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Jamestown, New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: chelsangeline763
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ok, my girlfriend's dad died the other day (they were on vacation in Qubec with her, her dad, her mom, & 2 friends) & so she was very upset & so she broke up with me. I understood & said it was ok. & so I bought her a card (witch I'm gonna send once I get her address from her friend) & I'm afraid to call her & everything cos I don't want to talk about it & that'd be the only thing we'd talk about.
but what I'm asking is if I should wait for her to get over it all & maby go back with her, or if I should just move on?
more about our realationship, she lives about 45 mins. away & I haven't been able to see her much & I haven't been the best boyfriend since I'm going through some really hard times right now, but I try
I'm 14/M & shes 14/F
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Listen, if you're afraid to offer your shoulder for her to cry on after something as traumatic as a parent's death at the age of 14, maybe you shouldn't be with her in the first place. If you understand how it is to be going through things right now, and not being the best boyfriend, maybe you should try to understand that the way that you COULD be a great boyfriend, or even friend, would be to offer her some of your time, because even though you may not want to talk about it, she does, and that would show how much you care.
Hope i could be of some assistance,
Chelsea
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