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Q: lets say u like a guy and u guys kick it off, somethin happens in ur past life and it bothered him. but it doesnt bother u that much if he lives cuz u got other guys that u like but him u like him alot. how can u make him feel like its not so bad and things can get better.

maxy blu
Maxy Blu,

I'm trying to understand your question. Basically you care about someone, but she has had past people in her life that you dislike, but shes still close to them... But something happened with one of them with her and you feel like everything has just gone bad? I think that every cloud has a silver lining. When it rains it pours but the birds always come out to sing in the end, so don't worrie about it and I'm sure the past is in the past cause thats usually where its left.

xox missi

Q: hey missy
hun lol im gonna ask you some advice heh!!
im going crazy lol im afraid to say everything thats on my mind to (you know who) lol lets not just say his name!! i mean i can never tell him what pisses me off or that kind of stuff i always seem like im never mad at him or he always asks me whats wrong but i just tell him nothing whats wrong with me im going crazy over here lol!!!
well i will see what you have to say!! since i luv yaz very much he he
sincerley,
MR.BOB**
Mr.Bob,

Ok well I think it shouldn't be hard to tell the person you care about how you feel. If they truly love you and understand you they'll be there for you. I mean you have to be honest, no one is perfect and if you don't point out some flaws that get on your nerves, who knows he'll have em forever... I think you should be honest with him when he askes you a question and be less worried about his reaction or responce and more worried about your problem.

xox missi

Q: u actin like u kno somethin me and her the same age i dont see wha the problem is

So wha u gotta a man or som'thin?
Does he take care of u?
buy u things?

I kno whats real and i am down 4 mine so as far as i am concern if she aint wit it then i aint commited u feel me

holla bac

P>S i aint mad at ya jsut keepin it real
Ja-ce,

I do know a lot. I may not have been through a lot or seen a lot... but I know whats real. I have someone I am in love with and he takes care of me and waits for me cause he loves me. But that doesn't mean that your a bad person. Maybe you just need to straightn up a little and give yourself a chance to love her for her and not her body. And I don't think she has an issue with being "wit it" I think her issue is knowing you don't know what commitment means.

xox missi

Q: i understand wha u tellin me
i am gonna dump her and let her get wit it cuz i need me a girl that aint as girly i mean shes 16 and u think shed get over it its just
ASS TITS LEGS BOOTY-----> DICK

Ps ur good at this cuz u keep it real
Ja-ce,

I don't think I fully understand you. After those two a-mails you told me you really cared for her. I mean honestly its not all about that. "ASS TITS LEGS BOOOTY" ya know. It's about caring for someone and being there for them. I don't know if your ready to be that type of guy thats fully ready to care for someone yet though, because when you care for someone enough you can wait for them and love them for who they are and how they feel about certain things. I wish you the best of luck.

xox missi

Q: the girl i am wit has had some experience and she thinks it should take her longer to do somethings. I think wha ever cums natural should be that way I really care about her but i think she just wants to stall

ohh by the way i called u a Q-tie
my name is Ja-ce
Ja-ce,

She may have had some experiences, but were they good and was she ready? I mean to some girls these things take time. Did you ever think that she might be scared. You need to confront her and ask her how she feels about things. But in the end I think you should either accept her for who she is and what she's ready to do. Or maybe... just maybe. She's not the one for you!

xox missi

Q: if u feel good in a relationship and u feel like its the best one u have had in a long time but the girl thinks she needs time before she can so somethings and u think she jsut needs to try them first. what should that person do the one who thinks the girls should try it first

holla back Q-Tie
Q-ti,
I think if you care about her that much you will wait for her to be ready for things. I mean if you force things upon her and she does it she will regret things in the future and you don't want that you want her to be happy with everything she ever does with you, because you want every moment to be happy. Remember this! If there are a lot of regrets in a relationship it wont last long!

xox missi

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xox missi

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