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Hmm.. well you can ask me just about anything. I have been through ALOT of stuff, and I can answer just about anything. I may be young(er) than some, but I'm ready to answer anything that comes my way.
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Dear Brookeanne,
I have a friend who has wrote to you before and she says you are s lot of help. I just found out my boyfriend, who I have been dating for a year, has been cheating on me for a month! I don't know what to do. I love him to death, but should i forgive him for his crime? I need loads of help so any of your advice would be a pleasure!
Thanks So Much,
**Cheated**On**
Dear Cheated On,
..First thing you should do is talk to him about it. See why he did it and just talk. Find out what he is going to do it, and just take it slow. Don't give in to fast though and forgive him, or he might just do it again if he thinks he can get by with it. Maybe try to make him feel alittle bad about it, but make sure you don't lose him or let him go unless you really want to and are really ready. Try to work things out the best you can though. Hope this helps! Good luck!
xoxo Brookanne
thanx brookanne ur alot of help and well ill try it and let you know how it works out
Anytime ;)
its confused girl again im just to shy around him so wat do i do?
Dear Confused Girl,
Don't be shy! Just act like you do when your with your friends! Maybe go up to him with a friend, that way you aren't alone and talk to him. Just be yourself. Good luck! Hope this helps!
xoxo brookanne
hey im 14 and my nick name is well im gonna say its confused girl and i really like this guy and he is really cute and i know a bunch about him well anyway i barley think he knows who i am and id really appreciate it if u could help me
signed confused girl
Dear Confused Girl,
Well, just start talking to him. Just tell him about your self, and say hi to him as much as you can. Talk to him every chance you get, and MAKE HIM find out about you. Haha. Just be yourself around him, and don't pretend to be someone your not. Hope this helps! Good luck!
~xoxo brookanne
i'm 13 and i'm in 8th grade...i like this guy, and he likes me and he asked me out and thats great!! but i just found out my best friend likes him..what should i do..go out with him..or leave him for my friend..? i am so confused right now..
:( :/
Well... here's my advice. First, talk to your friend about it, and tell her how you feel, and explain everything, because friendship is more important than a boy. Find out how she feels about it. She should want the best for you though, but talk things through with her before you do ANYTHING and don't lose her. Then if she says it's alright, go for it. If she's not really ok with it, talk about it with the boy, and just tell him you can't because you don't want to upset your friend! Hope this helps!
xoxo brookanne
Brookanne,
Hey! I'm almost 14 years old in the 8th grade.I've had a boyfriend for about 4 months now.I like him A LOT but the ONLY time I see him is at school. In the past, my boyfriends and I have done things outside of school. Like go to one anothers houses and hang out at the mall. The only problem is his parents are VERY STRICT. I'm not even sure if both of his parents know about me. =( !! Anyway, I've been wanting to get together with him sometime outside of school and I'm afraid to ask him!!! I think that if he really wants to see me somewhere other than school he'll be the one to ask! So.. should I ask him to come over or something?? but then what if his parents say that he's not aloud??? or should I just wait for him to make the 1st move?? HELP!
Well... he shouldn't be just the one that makes all the moves. You are both in the relationship together, so it shouldn't matter who makes the move, as long as you both want it. Just tell him you want to see him more than at school. Just invite him over, or tell him you want to see a movie. If his parents dont approve, find out why they won't allow it, and see if you can work things out. I hope this helps!
xOxO brookanne
well see i like this guy alot and i don't know if he knows or not , well see he likes this girl and i don't know how much but i am pretty sure alot! Well see should i tell him that i lie him or not , and we are friends we are not close but we are friends! Well i was just wondering if i should tell him or not !! What do i do !!!!!! I think about him day and night!!!
Well...I've been going through the same thing alot. It's completely up to you on whether you WANT to tell him or not. If you don't tell him, then you will never have a chance of anything happening. And whether he likes someone else or not, that's not changing how you feel about him. Anything could happen if you tell him, good or bad.So it's up to you, but in my opinion, I think you should just go for it and tell him. If you are friends, him knowing that should not change a thing between you, unless it makes it better as in dating. Hope this helps! Write me again if you need to!
xoxo Brookanne
Hi!Um I like my friend and he likes this one girl that has a boyfriend.His name's Evan and we sorta went out last year but I just started liken him again. He knows some one from skool likes him he just doens't kno it me.. I'm not sure if I should tell him how I feel or just give up on him...What do u think?
Well... if he doesn't know how you feel, then you should tell him. If you don't tell him, you'll never know how he feels. If he had feelings for you at one time, it's possible he still does. So... hunny go for it!