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This feels like a weird question to be asking, since I've never had this problem with anyone else. I'm 19 and a girl, by the way, and he's 21.
Okay, so there's this guy. We dated for awhile, then decided we couldn't handle the relationship, so we lost the titles and basically went for a friends with benefits deal.
So, sometimes I find myself wanting to talk to him on line, or on the phone, but I have absolutely nothing to say, or he barely responds. I feel awkward, and like I'm talking to a wall.
I'm not a bad conversationalist, and he really doesn't make me nervous, especially considering I know where I stand now (I didn't for awhile). I haven't seen him since April, because he lives about 40 minutes away from me, and I was living at school since '05, when we met. I haven't seen him in over a month, we miss each other, but I can't think of anything to talk to him about.
It's not like I need to keep the small talk stuff going, since we've dated, we're still pretty much in love, just unable to handle the intensity of the relationship we were in at this age. I know him like the back of my hand and he knows me (almost) as well...
Why do you think I/we can't find anything to talk about, and what can I do about it? (link)
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Before I answer I want to tell my story ok me and this boy was talking and then we realized that it was just a physical attraction between us and nothing else. So then one day he say you want to be friends with benefits and i say hell no. So after we would talk about everything and we got to know each other. Well now your answer i don't think it's too late but it is to late because ya'll already had sex and everything else. You should find things to talk about like what ya'll have in common and even we ya'll do today. You can also talk about your family school if your in college your job anything.
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im really like sad i guess.. to the point of crying. and its just so messed up. im 15/f - first of all, it just feels like everyone aruond me is getting a boyfriend or has one, and if they dont have one, they're talking to a guy they might like and that lieks them. no one likes me. idont know why. it just really bums me out, because i know i would be so happy if i had a boyfriend or a guy i liked and don't tell me"oh it will all come in time" or "they should like you for you" or wahtever. just please help me.. how can i talk to guys more, so i can like get a boyfriend or start liking someone or get someone to like me. how can i get more confidence and be more "flirty" and just show that i'm out there and looking or whatever? (link)
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Well here are somethings I learned most girls that get a lot of attention by boys aren't always so happy and most girls that do talk to a lot of boys are always having problems with them. Sometimes people don't realize they don't need a man to make them or make them happy. Believe you shouldn't be dying for a boyfriend or somebody to talk to because boys can come with stress, diseases and even pregrency. Another thing don't ever put yourself out there like you are dying for somebody because if a boy notice this he will do anything to you and even treat you any kind of way. Well you just can't confidence over night but look in the mirror and say i'm beautiful and i don't need no mn to tell me because I already know it. Well being flirty to me is also saying yeah i will do it and that mean flirting can also be a sign of a freak.
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