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heyy guys,as you probably know from my name i am a blonde, but a smart one (most times).
You are reading the profile of a girl born and raised in Georgia! I recently moved to New Jersey and am having trouble adjusting to the cold.=[ i am in high school, and having an amazing time! Some people think that i am too young to give adive scince im 14(at the time im writing this bday coming soon!!!) but wake up and smell the starbucks Highschoolers are just future Phd holders.
i am curently taken but my amazing boyfriend of 6 months!
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I have this friend.. who i love being around. we do a lot of things outside of school together, and he always comes over, and we just have an understanding with eachother where we know exactly how we act.. i guess you could say we feel comfortable around eachother. secretly i fell in love.. at least i think. He is the most amazing person i have ever met. ive never seen him be mean to anyone and i think that attracts me most. last night i found out he had a girlfriend and i was just in complete shock.. that this has been going on for a couple weeks now.. and he never told me. i dont know what to feel or what to say. im heartbroken
i am probably going to sound bitchy for saying this but it is true stop yourself from wallowing in self pity/ doubt.
he probably didnt tell you because he was afraid of what you would think.
it is hard seeing some one you like go out with some one else ( ive been there too) but if you think about too much youll become super jealous
the best thing to do is to set it to the back of your mind and when they break up if you still like him go for him
but dont stop spending time with him. he needds to know that you still are open to friendship or more.
The love of my life is in the hospital And i`m not aloud to go see him. He is in critical condition. We arent going out because we have been waiting until we could see eachother more often but he is my soul mate and i know it. He is most likely not going to make it and I dont know what to do please help!
I cant live without him
if you aren't allowed in physiclly why not write a letter. it is sweet and personal and a way for him to know you are still thinking about him.
hope i helped
I really like this guy Jake, right? I'm 14 and he's 14 & he's in a few of my classes. Football player, hockey player, honor roll...perfect. We're friends & talk all the time, but we don't hang out one-on-one because I'm not as physically attractive as his past girlfriends.
I like him a lot, and I'd like him to ask me out, but I'm what my school would call fat-a size six. I know, I know. Fat. But is there a way that I can act, or something I can do, or say, or change my look, to make him like me as more than a friend?
first a size 6 is not fat, and if you want him to see you in a new light just start flirting a bit, if there is a movie coming out that you both want to see go see it together, and just drop little hints like 1 or 2 times a week that yu should start hanging out more closely.
this guy at my school just asked me out today. i could tell he was very sincere, because he took both my hands and asked me. i told him no. then he just got all mad at me and said,"i was just playin. i didn't want to go out with you anyway." i didn't tell him this, but the reason i said no is because he has a girlfriend, and my bestfriend likes him. i'm the one who should be mad!!! and why would he even say something like that? i could tell from the look in his eyes that he wasn't playing. he should of known i wouldn't disrespect my best friend, or even his girlfriend like that!!
Guys like this are jerks, if he has a girl friend that you talk to, even if its just "hey, whats up?" you should tell her. She needs to know that her boyfriend asked you out from you not from a rumor mill. And if you dont talk to her at all i'd let it go. and about your friend i would tell her but tell her that you would never hurt her by doing something like that. even if you dont want to talk to them it would be the right thing to do.