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long story short, my boyfriend sorta cheated on me, after he basically worshipped me and said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and he's never loved anyone like me. he didnt actually CHEAT, but he definitely betrayed me, and im not sure i believe that he wouldnt have cheated on me had he been given the chance. the point is, i feel like shit. after listening to him carry on about how much he loved me, i found this out, and listened to him deny it [yes i know for a FACT it was true. trust me.] its some girl he had a crush on like 4 years ago, she had a crush on him too, they never knew, then she moved, so they never had their chance, now theyre back in touch so now they know. that makes me feel sooo second choice. me and him arent together and basically not speaking. but i cant help feeling soo torn up. i know to go out with friends and have fun to get my mind off of it and all that stuff. but still, its not the fact that it happened. that hurts too, but its the fact that it seems like he'd take her over me, as much as he said he wouldnt, obviously i now know not to believe anything he says. i feel like im not good enough, like he'd rather have her any day, and like im second choice. if you've been in this situation, you know. i know that he's in the wrong here, not me, but it still hurts and the whole situation is making me feel like that. i just need some help =[
dont worry everything will be ok! my ex boyfriend was the same way he told me he loved me, wuld spend the rest of his life with me and would never hurt me and then he did shady things behind my back. Jus always remember how special you are and remember it is your boyfriends loss not urs! it is his fault and he lost a fabulous girl. be confident jus hold your head up high. trust me i know it hurts but everything will b ok. jus remember that actions speak louder than words and not to believe everything men and people tell you and know that u r the prize it is his loss and he was lucky to have you!
yeah i like talking to you i might be able to learn a few things from you but one quesion are you a male or a female?he iz the closest person to me right now and i really want to understand he is the person in my life right now,lastnight i cried and went to bed with a head ache and crying isn't going to solve the problem between us
im a female how old r ya?
yupp cryin wont help u gotta do something bout it :)
i am kind of shy and it seems to be affecting him but he just doesn't want to tell me....we now live a seperate countries and i only see him for the summer holidays,whenever he comes over by me he kisses my neck and play around with me but i don't do anything what can i do to make him understand that i care too much for him to let go
Tell Him!
Dont b shy the best thing to do is to be honest!.... If you wanan express that just show him you care by doin the simple things hun!...I have had many oppurtunites and didnt use them cause i was shy so please do me a favor n just tell him.
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i love my boyfriend and he loves me also he doesn't have a problem in opening up to me bout how he feels but i can open up and let him into my life what should i do?
Well it sounds like your just shy. I think you should just talk to your boyfriend if you trust him. If you dont want to than just dont. But if he is a good listener than i suggest you talk to him.
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Coming up is my boyfriend and I's one year anniversary. I have no idea what I should get him! He's 18 and he likes football, clothes, etc... I want it to be a nice gift... Suggestions PLEASE! WILL RATE 5'S!
Hey...
How bout cds, giftcards, or a romantic evening?
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well there is this guy and i like him a lot and he knida flirts with me but i dont know if he is just plaing or flirting . he does stuff like slap my butt(a lot) and he is really sweet. at the beginning of the year me, him, and some other people were playing truth or dare and we got dared to kiss. oh ya and at the beginning orf the year(before truth or dare) i asked him out but he said ne after a lot of thought like a whole days worth. does he like me or is he just playing?. i rate 5s. please help me. 14 f
I think that he is starting to like you. If he likes u boys usually make eye contact and try to make u laugh...soo use your own judgement but in my opinion he probally does like u.
We don't have any communication whatsoever with the guy that I have a crush with. Like what I said, Ican't forget him. I don't know if he will be present when we will have our field day in our school. There are visitors welcomed but last year he didn't come. Just some of my classmates. I miss him a lot. My problem is, what will i do? will I try to forget him first so that I won't be hurt when the field day comes and he's not there? or just let it go or think always about him? I don't know anymore. and if I let go. It hurts. Really. I can't stand the pain. But I don't know if I'll continue making a fool of myself. Please help me.
Ask some friends for his sn, or if u kno a friend that knos him then tell that person to invite him and u ova.
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