Hey yall! I'm 15 and I love to listen to people and help them in any way I can. I love knowing that I'm helping someone or making a difference in someone's life. Even if it's just telling you what color shirt to wear ; ) I have been through some things.. and I'm very opinionated but yet very open-minded. I think I give pretty good advice, but hit me up and ask me some questions and I'll let you decide!
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Location: Illinois
Age: 15
AIM: SweetAbs2
Member Since: December 1, 2005
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i'm trying to get close to this girl and talk to her more on aol so i can ask her out pretty soon. what kind of things can we talk about? (link)
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Ask her things about her and what she likes... She'll be happy that you actually care about her and her feelings about things... not just what she looks like. Ask her what her favortie color is. What is her favorite sports team? What does she think about the war? Just simple everyday things can make awesome conversations. By asking her questions about how she feels about certain topics will also give you a sense of who she is. Find out her hobbies and maybe you can do one of them on your first date.
Also-talk to her in person. I prefer person to person talk over anything!
Good luck!
Abs
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So I have liked this boy since the beginning of the year. We didnt know each other, but I just had a major crush on him. I am very outgoing, the thing is...hes super shy. He agreed to go to homecoming with me and we went and ended up having a blast. I think he just thought that I thought of him as a super cool guy. I don't think he got that I actually had feelings for him. Now, we don't talk a lot because I am super shy around him myself, and he seems like he might be intimidated. Yes, I'm a sophmore cheerleader, and hes a freshman football player, but does that make a difference?
Lately, he has started looking at me a lot. Whenever I walk by his table, he cannot stop staring at me. I feel like his attitiude is still "girls have cooties and im not ready for a girlfriend". I really don't know, because he acts like hes infatuated with me, and I'm just in lust with him. We BARELY talk though. Yesterday, he said hi to me when I walked by him and that's because of his shy-ness.
I am so confused and I don't think I should be making moves and having my friends talk to him, and I think i should just back off for a little bit and if he wants to be friends, he will have to make the move.
What do you people think I should do?!
PLEASE RESPOND!!!
* I'm LOVE STRUCK * (link)
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This is crazyy! Almost the same exact thing happened to me! The only difference between my story and yours is that I'm a sophmore on Poms *the dance squad* and he's a sophmore football player. Hehe!
I don't like him anymore cuz he wouldn't make a move and I need a guy that would.
But my advice for you is that he probably is a little intimidated and sometimes freshman guys are a little immature but an immature relationship can be fun sometimes in a weird kina way.
I'd say you should just go right up to him *not in front of his friends he'd probably get embarrassed* and tell him that you think he's cute and has a great personality and would like to try dating him... If he says the same about you-Great! you've got yourself a new boyfriend
If he says that he doesn't like you like that and that he just wants to be friends-Big deal! So you maybe got rejected once? You'll forget sooner or later!
I wouldn't have your friends talking to him though because that could be a turn-off and intimidator also. I would do it yourself.. it will make a good impression on how you're going to handle a relationship with him... you'll talk to him about problems first-not blab to your friends and have them fix it!
Hope I helped!
Abs
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To start off, i'm only 15 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for five months. We just recently broke up, and a week after our break up he got a new girlfriend. I was really upset for awhile, and I couldn't even eat because of it. I cried just about every day. I constantly think about him, and regardless of how bad he treats/has treated me, I still have an enormous amount of feelings for him. I don't know why I can't get over him. My friend told me "If you can't get over him, maybe there's a reason". Is it possible I'm in love? Or what is it that I'm feeling? And why can't it go away? (link)
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Well first off... It's very possible you're in love...
I've been there before... It takes a long time to get over a relationship like that-me and my ex-boyfriend broke up in August of 2004 and I still have feelings for him. It's just something that needs time. He has a new girlfriend now too and I hated her for the longest time for no reason, but now I see that even though I still have feelings for him there's a reason we aren't together. It takes a lot of time and healing but eventually you'll see that you're okay without him. Just let it burn and try to surround yourself with friends and things you like to do. Don't jump into another relationship too fast because that could possible hurt you even more or hurt someone else. Just take time to realize that it was something great, but all great things end sometimes. It will probably even make you stronger in the end. I hope you feel better soon and I hope I helped a little bit!
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