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Hey yall..! I'm becky but everyone calls me beckster :) I'm 14 and cant wait to get to high school! aah! I decided to make an advice column because.. haha i liek giving advice? lol hopefully i can help you with any problem you have because i pretty much get down to the point and lay my opinion flat out.. haha have funn.

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hey beck-
okay well i have a problem. i think i like this guy because he is sooo cute and nice and funny when im alone with him, but when we are around other people, he is completey obnoxious and rude to me. Even his guy friends notice it and try to stick up for me. I dont want to like him but my feelings toward him keep growing. IDK i am just sad because of how he makes me feel sometimes.

Thanks for helping!
Confused.

alright.. well this is a tuffy. suck it up and keep going. lifes not always easy with guys so i think you should get over it.. plus its summer so yeah your never gonna see him.

--nat

this is why i dont have an advice colomn :)

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ok so there's this guy who i really really really like but all my friends keep telling me that they hate him and he's not right for me and that they think i should break up with him and he's just going out with me because he wants to make out with me, we've been going out for a month and we havnt even gone that far. But i've expressed my feelings to my friends about how much it bothers me that they keep telling me all this but the fact is im kind of starting to believe parts of it...help!!
-lost

Well, you know what people always say, to make sure your best friends liek the guy your dating. I know you liek him a lot, but try to understand WHY your friends dont like him, and then ask your boyfriend what he does to make them not like him, and tell him not to do that. But in my opinion, it matters what you want, nad what you think. if you want to be with him, then stay with him if hes good to YOU, thats all that matters, but talk to him about the way he treats your friends, and ask your friends why hes so bad. If your starting to believe it, then be sure you get your facts straight on what exactly is happening. hope i helped.
xo-Beck

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hey becky..
this is one of your close friends but i never want to tell you who i am until im ready to...a few weeks ago i took a quiz and i think im lesbian...and i can kinda see how that is true..i always have dreams about my have a threesome with all girls and i always picture me makingo ut wtih my closest friends...but if i tell anyone hwo i am or even what my name is im afraid ill loose them as friends...and i dont want that but i dont want to keep pretending that i like guys when i think theyre disgusting and want to find a nice girl that i can have fun with...please help an dim srry if this grosses you out....
sincerely,
becoming a dike

im not really sure what to say.. i have neevr been in that situation,and i dont know if this is a joke or what but like.. as long as you dont have a crush on your girl friends then i dunno.. theyll be a little bit shocked and scared, and may stay away from you for awhile but eventually theyll be understanding..
sorry i couldnt help.
Beck

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okay well i have this boyfriend that ive been going out w/for almost 2 years now.. but all he ever wants to do is talk and hang out.. like we havent ever even made out yet..=/ so i guess i got kinda bored of him.. so lately me and this other guy have been making out a lot and fooling around and its really fun.. but i know with him all i'll ever get is kinda a fwb(friends with benefits) kind of relationship.. but then with my b/f our relationship is just boring..please help im not sure what i need to do!

okay well first of all.. dont cheat on your boyfriend.. that will create m uch bigger problems. decided what you like better.. a verbal relationship or a physical relationship. if you liek them both the same.. then focus on looking for a guy with both qualities. first what i would do if i were you is talk to your boyfriend.. yall have been together for 2 years so your obviously comfortable with him, so tell him you want to l ike be more serious and like make out or whatever. or else just go in and make out with him.. i doubt he will protest against it, and if he does.. hes not worth it :).

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ok im in the 8th gradeand i really like this guy(hes in the 8th grade too) and he totally flirts with me and i flirt back he has even told me he likes me and wants to go out were like bestfriends we talk on the phone every night about everything and all of our friends tell us we would be perfict together.... ok heres the big problem he is going out with a ninth grader whose gorgeous(she looks like shes 19!) he tells me everything about her and what they do and it makes me so jealous he says he can get enough of her i really do love him it makes me not interested in any other guys i think im depreased because of it

doesnt it totally suck to want guys we cant have? okay, so heres my advice: next time he tells you stuff that like he likes you and wants to go out w/ith you, be like "well what about your girlfriend and all the great things you say about her?" or "umm you seem to like your girlfriend so much, are you sure she would like to hear you talking about this.." to me that just doesnt make sense at all.. he says he likes you, but then he brags on his other girlfriend.. hmm well maybe you should hang out with a bunch of other guys and start looking really cute and show him what hes missing. :) what kind of guy dates older girls anyways? haha hope i helped.. :)

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sometimes i want to finger myself.. will i get called a slut?

hmm probably some girls who dont have a life will call you a slut, but as long as you dont tell anyone what you do on your personal time, i think your safe :)

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