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The Story:
Okay I have a boyfriend who I have liked for a while, but I recently was just going out with one of his friends, but they are no longer friends. And well anyways my ex-boyfriend I really was in love with, and he broke my heart. And he only did it because he thought there was no trust in the relationship. And then he thought about it all. And 10 days later he told me he still liked me, and was in love with me still, and wants to go back out with me. And at the same exact time he told me that, my friend, well boyfriend now, was asking me out. And I said yes to him. But now my ex-boyfriend is heart broken knowing that i have a boyfriend, who happens to live by him, go to school with him, and they use to be friends. But my ex-boyfriend is so sweet with it all. He asked me once if i was thinking about "dumping" my boyfriend now, and I asked why, and my ex-boyfriend said because he really was in love with me, and hates him self everyday for breaking up with me, and breaking my heart. And I told him I think we should be friends right now, and go back out in high school, or MAYBE a little sooner. And he said what ever makes you happy, just as long as you are happy. And the thing with my ex-boyfriend, who yes i was in love with, and yes at age 13, and go ahead and call it puppy love, but i really do know it was so much more. Anyways, well my ex-boyfriend was really just the best, the only thing that really hurt me was that we didn't get to see eachother that much. And that sucked. But I managed because i knew i still had him in my life, and that made me happy. And me and him also not being able to see eachother often is a parshle reason why i think me and him should go out in high school, that way he could of maybe grown away from always having to do things, and being busy, and we could see eachother more. But....here is the problem i need advice with:
Do I stay with my boyfriend I have now,who I do love.Or break up with him and go out with my ex-boyfriend, who I was in love with, and still could be. Or do I just play it solo?
And one more thing, i don't know if i am having mixed feelings, i think i just might feel bad for my ex-boyfriend.
Some one please help me... :( (link)
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hey,
I know u think a lot of us older teens n adults might think these things r puppy love, but i see where ur comming from, i was in the same position last night now that i think of it. You seem to be a wounderful girl, that all the guys want. From wut i see is that if u REALLY LIKE ur x-bf and think u could manage seeing him more..(trying to make the time possible) then go for it...BUT the other thing is.....this guy ur with now, use to be friends with ur x-bf, u have to look at it this way to, he could be just jalous that his old friend has sum1 he once loved, n doesnt feel right having him dating u, n now wants u back of jalousy, or it could happen to be that he does still have feelings for u, (let me put it this way its like a 2 way stop sign but on the main street bettween the stop signs is u n then guys r ur 2 way stop sign. Your the main street. One guy likes u but cant help get across u (ova u) n the other guy is that other stop sign that loves u a lot, n doesnt wanna get across u just yet, or maybe never (ova u) u just have to kinda look at it that way. Sry im 15 so0o im kinda in the driving thing where a lot of my exsamples r about driving things. But i hope this helps u, n i hope t hear from u!
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I'm going to a party in a few weeks and a guy i sort of like is going to be there. Does anyone have any flirting tips besides be yourself and smile? I saw a list of 101 Ways to Flirt on this site once, so if you know what that is, please send it to me. Thanks so much! (link)
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ok well heres wuts u do make eye contact with him and strike up a conversation with him!!!! but dont act all stupid and ditzy becuz guyz dont like that!!!! and dont dress 2 slutty becuz guyz dont like that eaither!!!! just be yourself and make him laugh and smile and then at tha end of tha night u never know u guyz could end up exchanging numbers!!!!!
If u need anymore tips u know my user name o0or u can i.m. me on aim!!
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