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hey thanks for answering back, but the thing is, he didn't go to the party with a date he went alone and started dancing with this girl(i don't knw who she is) in front of me, that kinda makes a difference. Now can u tell me wat u think? (link)
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So he went alone . . . I see now. Probably that is the reason why he was being shady. I think that he asked the girl to meet him there. But tell me this, don't you agree with me when I said that if he was into you, he would've asked you out to go with him?
Do you guys have any history at all, besides a co-worker relationship?
I also have another website, I check them both very often. http://www.myspace.com/ask_gina
I hope to hear back from you,
Blu
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i went for a drink with a nice looking 27 guy,well i thought we got on great, talked for 2hrs before i had to go home/ he has my moblie number, but he hardly texts me now, since sunday, i was wondering how do i know for sure that he likes me& wants a relationship with me ?? (link)
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The date was very recent, and you barely know him I assume. I might say that it is too soon to tell. Just give him some more time. Is he the one that always sends you the text message and you respond to them? Maybe he would like for you to send him the message first. Try it out and let me know how it goes.
Good Luck!
Blu
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Ok i am a little upset right now, this is regards to my question before. The guy i like who i work with. well we spoke and laughed and i thought things were going reat. then we had a christmas party and i heard he was going so i went, but when i got there he glanced at me slightly and never spoke to me the whole night (mind you i never did either)I could feel him look at me sometimes when i danced but thats bout it, (hes such a proud guy never looks at when he passes by) then when we were dancing to a a rap song he came up and started grinding with a (ugly) girl near me, i am upset, are things getting worse between us, and what should i do? (link)
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Let's breakdown the situation here for a better understanding. You like your co-worker and you went to the Xmas party only because you heard he was going. When you got there, you see him kind of evasive but he glanced at you a few times. Additionally he never spoke to you all night. Sweetie, YOU like your co-worker, but he is just nice with you at work because he is a nice co-worker. That is the ONLY relationship that he has with you, CO-WORKER. If he was into you, or if he likes you the same way you like him, don't you think that he would've asked you out to be his date for the Xmas party?? But what happened, he didn't asked you and you showed up only and solely because you knew he was going. I bet that the reason he glanced at you a few times is to prevent that you don't see him with his date. Then you see him dancing with this ugly girl. Things are not getting worse between the two of you and you know why? Because there is NOTHING going on between the two of you but a co-worker relationship. That is all mamma, that is all. Now, why are you upset? If someone should be upset is him because he had such an UGLY date for the party, and I bet she was a bad dancer, lol.
Hope to hear back from you!
Blu
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I'm planning on asking out this girl tommorrow at school. is this a bad idea? whats a good way to ask some one out?
ALL FIVES (link)
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Hello All Fives,
I want to make sure that you ask her the right way. First of all, what kind of relationship you guys have? Are you friends? You want to make sure that she knows YOU to receive a positive response. Trust me, you don't want to experience a rejection from this girl. If you think that she likes you, then go ahead and ask her out. But just make sure that she seeks for that.
If you are 100% sure that you should ask her out, send her a flower with someone at school along with a little note saying "see you at the movies on ... P.S. I only got two tickets...". Try to do this at lunch time when she is eating with her friends. Try to be at a close corner where she can see you (and you can see everything too). The little details are the ones that count.
Let me know how it goes! Feel free to send me a message to my inbox if you have any other questions.
Blu
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