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Q: hi i am fourteen years of age and i have never had a partner, which means ive never been to any of the bases!! is the first kiss always the worse? i dont know what i am supposed to do when i am going to kiss somebody, like what your supposed to do with the lips, teeth, and tounge, and i am scared! i dont want to feel akward when i really suck at kissing..and im not really talented!! someone please tell me what i should do!
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be glad, buddy. women cost money and guys just want sex. welcome to the world. you know, when i was 14...i played with toys and played ball. man, how times have changed. in the mean time, always wear a condom and practice makes perfect. just know the crap you are geting into. even at your age, there are gifts that keep on giving! (not the good kind) trust me.
anyhow. dont use teeth except to nibble or lightly bite the neck. never break the skin! dont use a tougue at first. take it easy...nice and slow. experiment, buddy. show the person how you care and be gentle. look them in the eyes. pay attention to them. never be afraid to ask. just don't tell them BS you cant back up later. (like how you feel and so on)
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Q: ugh okay. so i used to date this kid.. and everything was cool for a while until he started to be a real jerk to my friend. so we broke up and we got into this HUGE argument and it was a big ugly mess. & now, he's dating my "aquaintence" who is a slut, and i don't really like her but she thinks were really good friends but she smells terrible and he's only going out with her to get some action and its obvious. but everytime anyone mentions him or i see him (which is on a rare occasion, but i still do) i get really really really mad and i say im ok and blah blah blah im over it w/e.. but i dont think i really am.. wtf do i do to get fully over this mess?
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well, lets first start with the double standard of her being a slut. i mean, come on... just about everyone has sex now-a-days. Even I am a slut...i guess. No, really..let's get down to business. You dated him, had your differences and now it is over. it is on you to move on. I know it is hard. the thought of my ex's bf john having sex with my ex-wife severly screwed my head up. YOU MUST LET GO. It's his loss. You may not be over it, but quit beating yourself up. All in due time, dear. now, weather this girl is a slut or she smells bad is irrelevant. your comparing yourself to this chick wondering what does she have that i don't. understandable? yes.
there are 4 ways to deal with this. 1) pray and talk to jesus and read your bible 2) spend some time with your self to find who you are 3) spend money and eat choclate ice cream. 4) suck it up, drive on and move on. be strong; thats what i say!
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bio
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Age: 27 (Libra)
Single
Job: U.S. Army Medic
Likes: chocolate, wine, tattoo's, sex, my daughter, all kinds of music, and cereal!
I have been there and done that. Divorce, Marrage, Children, Sex, and Depression. You name it. Feel free to ask me anything.
I am currently stationed at Fort Drum, NY
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E-mail: Gender: Male Location: Harrisburg, AR...Born in Memphis, TN Occupation: Medic in U.S. Army Age: 27 Yahoo: Member Since: February 11, 2005 Answers: 20 Last Update: August 13, 2005 Visitors: 3052
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