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I wanna make my boyfriend a mixed cd. We are in a long distance relationship and I want to mail him a mixed CD that I plan on putting together with great thought. But he's in college and I'm in highschool. Would it seem too "highschool" of me to do that? Do college kids even make mixed CDs for each other? Or is this a cute idea? I want to suprise him with the CD in the mail. Tell me what you think! (link)
Age has nothing to do with it (so its def not a high school move)...I am 31 and I made a CD for my boyfriend, he absolutely loved it! If the songs have meaning to you go for it! Im sure he will love it and its a very sweet idea...


I have been single for 10 months because my past relationship was with a guy I truely loved but he wasnt willing to devote himself to atleast calling me once a day to talk to me.

I have found this guy that I really like and He recently told me he liked me to. hes really nice, and not like most of the other guys i know. He is rude, he doesnt party much and hes not like most of the guys ive dated. I really like him but for some reason I get really shy around him (which isnt normal). The only thing Im afraid of is that Im going to push him away Like i do with alot of guys and i dont want to do that.

I think i push guys away when the treat me well but i dont understand why.

my question is. How do I try to losten up around him so that he knows i like him and so maybe we could move further and start dating. And how do I not push him away when this starts to happen?

Please help! (link)
First off there is nothing wrong with being shy, some guys will even find that sexy. The problem here is not you being shy, its about you pushing guys away, and thats the issue you need to address before you even begin to worry about getting into a relationship. Maybe you fear getting hurt if you let someone get to close to you, only you can figure out why you push men away but once you find out why you do it, and you stop, I am sure you will have a happy and healthy relationship! Best of luck!!




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