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I am a freshmen female in a college in New York, and I have been in almost a year long relationship now. I found out tonight that over spring break, right after we had our biggest fight, he'd told some of his friends from home that he'd had sex with me. I thought he was a decent guy, and he agrees it's wrong to discuss that because it's personal.
I found out today and am furious, because these are people I know. He INTRODUCED me to these people after he told them. The only way I found out was catching him in a lie.
I feel completely demeaned and violated. I don't know what steps to take next. (link)
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first: dump him, fast.
second: change your social network. however, just because they know you have a healthy sex life doesn't mean they would lose respect for you, so don't hit the panic button or treat them (or yourself) like a contagious epidemic!
third: remind yourself that you're an intelligent & attractive woman. tell yourself you deserve better than that jerk - and that the next time, you'll be more careful in vetting the guy you hook up with.
fourth: stop thinking like a victim. you've got/done NOTHING to be ashamed of. it's your (ex) bf who is the creepo.
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