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15,f missouri
there is this guy that i like, we go to the same school and we hang out alot, he knows that like him, and he says that he likes me, but he isn't doing anything about it. My dad said that i can't ask out a guy, it is forward and unapporpriate. So my question to you is how do i convince him that it is ok to ask me out. he flerts w/ me all the time, and i flert back, but i don't know, any help is appriciated. Thanks in advance
~Ash
Ok yeah...I'm not saying that your dad is wrong, but asking a boy out isn't necessarily "forward and unappropriate". If this guy likes you and hasn't already asked you out, maybe he is too shy or is planning to. But if you don't want to wait around for him to ask you, then I think you should ask him out. How is a girl asking a boy out any different from a boy asking a girl out? Even though boys are usually the ones asking the girls out,in this case I think it's ok.
Months ago my ex-bestfriend (was my best friend) started a fight with me, (to make the story short), and ever since that we haven't spoke to each other, which has been now 4 months.
I am currently hanging out with a new crowd of people. Some I have known for awhile before my ex-friend and I am happily getting along with them, and never think about my old friendship. I feel confident that I don't need her and I feel like I am much stronger without her.
However, every time she walks by I get this "adrenaline-rushed" feeling that she might go up to me and go off on me, because she is the kind of person that would. I don't know why I get that way, when I feel soo much better without her, and that when she isn't around I could care less what she has to say. Maybe deep down I am afraid of her? Although when she is not around I feel like she is nothing that she is just a waste of time and thought. And it changes when she is nearby.
I am one of those people who don't like to fight and get up in front of someone's face and "tell it like it is". I use alternative ways such as negotiating or just ignore the person. So, what I am asking is, how can I deal with this "adrenaline-rushed" feeling when she is around, and how can I stop it?
Thanks in advance!
I had the same problem with one of my friends...except it turned into an actual fist-fight. We didn't talk for a very long time, which was about 4 months also. The only way I see that you can stop this feeling you get when you're around her is to make-up. You don't have to be best friends like you were before, but it still would feel nice to "clear the air" wouldn't it? That's what me and my friend did, and I personally think it was much easier to be able to walk down the hallway and not have this feeling inside...kind of like the same feeling you had. I don't think that you are afraid of her. Maybe you just want to avoid a huge argument that will only make the situation worse. So my best bet is to make nice and try to be "associates", if not best friends again.
ok, 14/f
so theres this guy at my school, we'll call him michael. he was my bf for almost 1 yr but then we broke up bc we couldnt actually go on a real date. idk, it wasnt ever a problem before. and he's the first person i've ever liked. hard to believe but its true, and i love him so so much. but then theres one of my best friends, we'll call him dylan. now that i'm not going out with mike dylan wont stop asking me out (sry, that sounds kinda conceited) but its getting to the point where its multiple times a day and its really making our friendship awkward. i cant avoid him but i dont want to go out with him. and i've said this multiple times. i still love michael so so so much and i dont wanna go out with anyone else. we might be getting back together but we might not. i dont know what to do
Well, I've had this problem too. I broke up with this boy, and now one of my friends is flirting with me constantly, and asked me out too. If michael can't respect the fact that you can't go out with him somewhere, then he's not right for you. He probably got tired of not being able to go anywhere with him, but he decided that was ok when you 2 started goin out. Idk wut to tell you abouot dylan...just keep tellin him you are not interested. Maybe you can tell him you have another boyfriend at another school. Back to michael...you can't just sit around waitin for michael to come back to you. Even though it will be hard, try to move on if he doesn't day anything about goin back out in a week or so.
I hope you're relationship turns out!
Mizz nene