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Location: Montreal, Quebec
Occupation: cocktail waitress
Age: 21
Member Since: January 31, 2005
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Heya Im 15 (in 6 days) and female! There is this guy i like him he likes me. But he is popular (captain of the football team) and im not popular his mates cant stand me thus because im not popular. He hasnt told me he fancies me but tells me im pretty and calls me 'bubby' (babe). And he makes it obvious he does. We only smile to each other have talked a few times but he always makes the first move. Are there any good tactics that i can approach him with? How do i fake being confident? Because i get so scared of his friends.No one believes i can get a bf because im not popular but i have faith in myself i just need to put that faith into practice . please reply thanks ever so much xxx . (link)
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Hi! Well having graduated high school about five years ago, and growing from unpopular to popular I can tell you this. Don't strive on wanting to be popular, the less you think about it and be yourself the more you'll end up having more friends and what not. When it comes to this guy, if he is making the first move, then he doesn't care what his friends think, and neither should you. I know it hurts when they treat you badly, but their just immature, and lack confidence in themselves and need to bring people down to make themselves feel better. Be happy you're not like that! Continue to find things that you like to do, to meet more people like you. And if you're afraid to speak to this guy then just wave at him the next time you see him in the hallway. Waving hello or just saying hi to people surprisingly makes a huge difference. I wish you well and goodluck!
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