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Q: i have been thinking about what i should do for the talent show.i didnt realy thought about it yet or found out some ideas.so what do you think i should do for the talent show?here i will write some of the things that i like:ladygaga justinbieber usher demi lovato and miley cyrus.

You should do a medley of covers by those artists! Pick snippets of songs from each of them and blend them together to create one huge song with all the artists you love.

Q: soooooo i dated a guy for about 2 years. we broke up but he still talks to me. he basically has been playing games with my head for about 5 months saying all these things, telling me he loves me, then not talking to me for a week, then telling me he doesnt love me, making me want him, what not. i really feel like this is not fair to me at all! idk how he does it, but he just makes me want him sumhow. all i want was to make things the same as they used to be because we had a reallllly good relationship. but for the last few weeks, ive started to get sick of it, i feel like i dont even want him anymore becase ive realized what an asshole he is and whats hes doing to me. so i decided i want to cut it off. so i stopped connection with him and he would call still like once a week, but i wouldnt call or text him, and when we would talk id always be like i dont feel like talking and what not. but then i think he realized that i wasnt on his nuts anymore! and he started calling/texting me more, telling me he wants to see me and hes sorry for what hes done, and ive just kinda brushed it off. i think its MY turn to play the games with him. even if this sounds evil or mean i dont really care. any advice tips to make him hurt & want me?! i want to play games that he played with me.=] yes, it sounds bitchy, but ive been really hurt & its his turn.

i know most people are going to say, "omg, two wrongs don't make a right, blah blah blah" but,
i love this question(:.
some things i did when my ex did that was
- flirt with guys in front of his face.
- whenever he calls or texts you, answer at first and then cut him off when he gets into the conversation and say you have to go.
OR you can do exactly what he did to you.
One day, compliment him, tell him he's amazing or cute or hot. and then the next be like, why are you talking to me? or stuff like that.
or, when you talk to him, only give one word answers that don't help get the conversation going.

hope i helped! (:

Q: okay so I have a boyfriend who's 16 and he's my prince charming and all that=). but there's a problem! my ex boyfriend still wants me back but I don't want him. one time I went to chill with my friends and their boyfriends at the movies and my ex is over here trying to show off and he keeps trying to get by attention. it's annoying as hell! and I'm not a very sexual person. when we were going out, he kept trying to have sex with me but I cursed him out. I don't know how to get this guy out of my life. what should I do?I have a boyfriend and Iove him too. what do I do with my ex?

Ask him aside and tell him that you are VERY uninterested in him and find his gestures of getting your attention all the time quite annoying. Be very cynical with him and don't beat around the bush. Tell him you have a boyfriend that you love and do not intend on leaving anytime soon. Maybe then he'll understand. You could also avoid him as much as possible.
hope i helped.

Q: There's this boy I've liked for a long time, since Bush won his 2nd term (I'm 13/f, by the way). Over that time, we've become pretty good friends. Yesterday, he asked me who I liked and I wouldn't tell, because I didn't want him to know. Especially considering the fact that he just got a girlfriend (he's also 13). Then he kept begging and nagging and kept saying that he wouldn't tell anyone and that he keeps secrets well (I know that for a fact, but still I didn't want him to know). After a while, I decided to tell him, because if he kept it up, he'd find out eventually because if it seemed that I sincerely didn't want him to know (even though I've trusted him with other stuff), the truth would be very plain. So I told him, and I said I was sorry. He's really really nice, but I'm really worried that he thinks I'm an asshole. I don't know what to do! I've never liked anyone in my whole life. Do 13-year-old boys usually think their friends are assholes in this kind of situation? How can I stay friends with him? CAN I still stay friends with him? This is long and will most likely get rated down, but I don't have anywhere else to get help! And I know that problems of a 13-year-old aren't as important as questions asked by older people, but this IS an advice site, and the site IS open to 13-year-olds.

I can probably help you in this type of situation. Well, if he was sincerely a good friend he wouldn't think you're an asshole for liking him. Especially because you don't control your feelings for whomever you like, they just develop over a period of time. I've told a boy i liked him and i was pretty good friends with him. Everything stayed the same. We acted natural. Maybe after a certain amount of time he'll probably like you too. But i can't guarantee it. And the way you describe him makes him sound like a very gracious, understanding guy so he'll probably understand that you like him and you guys will probably stay friends for a while. i'm 95% sure. If you still think that he thinks your an asshole ask him if you and him could talk for a while after school or something. Tell him how you feel about you telling him you like him. Confront him about the asshole thing. and if he were a true friend he would tell you the truth. Hope i helped.
-Lizzie

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Hey! I don't go by a name. ;) I try giving the best advice I can possibly give and I never try to sell a person short of a great answer. I'm good at answering questions about relationships, beauty, friendships, but I know a little about other things here and there, so give it a shot and ask me.