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my name's Stephanie, 16 years old and i live in the UK. If you want my advice then i'll happily give it. If you don't agree with it then that's just tough, i say it how i see it.

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Ok this is gonna be long- ish, but I hope at least a few ppl at least read it. Here goes...
Alright, the boy I like, Nick and me were like friends-ish last year. Like we would talk and joke around after classes and stuff and I was majorly crushing him. Hes adorable and funny and REALLY smart and nice and has this laid-back, sarcastic kind of sense of humor. But he hangs out with the nerds, kind of, so it felt like he was within my league.
So we come back to school this year, and he isnt in any of my classes except band, and he plays another instrument so i have no reason to talk to him or anything. I have told myself to just stop likeing him, its useless, etc. But I CANT STOP! I havent spoken a word to him since last year, but I cant get him off my mind. I am pretty sure he knows i like him, since i check him out alot (:-D)and he catches me. BUt I figure if he hasnt done anything about it, he doesnt like me back. So whats the point? But yet, sometimes I see him looking at me. Its really weird. I cant get up the nerve to ask him out :( i was thinking maybe I should slip a note in his locker?? BUT IM TOO FRUCKING NERVOUS! I think that his kind of humor, around his friends, would make it SO easy to make fun of me if he thought I was stalker-ish or whatever. I need help... I need help... :(

I wouldn't leave a note in his locker as that's a little weird. My dvice is just to find a way to get talking to him again and keep throwing him flirty smiles. If after a while you still haven't got the courage to ask him out and he still hasn't said anything, it's probably best to move on.

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hey u guys im a 15 year old male, and i was of course playing truth or dare with mostly grls and a few guys, and a grl dared me to go in the bathroom right then and there and SHAVE MY LEGS! well i wasnt gonna turn down a dare so i did it, but im wunderin if i should like wear pants to school until they grow back cuz usually guys wit shaved legs r gay, or do grls think is hot??

Well i much prefer shaved legs on a guy and if anyone asks about it you just tell the truth. If you're that worried about a few pathetic gay comments from the guys then cover them up. It all depends on who you care about the most, what the girls think or what the guys think.

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whenever i am around my guy friends they laugh at me cuz im funny sometimes lol and ya but they cant see me as going out with them cuz all my other girl friends have bfs but the guys just see me as a funny friend. what should i do?

Don't do anything. Just appreciate the fact you have some cool guy friends who can give you info on what goes on in guys minds. Go flirt with some other guys and catch yourself a boyfriend.

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well, idk how to tell if a guy likes me and this guy talked to him for me or he was supposed to talk to him for me this weekend but im soooo nervous to find out what he says .. and if he doesnt then i think it will be awkward right? what should i do to get him off my mind?

To get him off your mind keep busy. It's really not that hard, haven't you got friends you can hang out with. If he doesn't like you then it doesn't have to be awkward at all, if you don't make an issue of it then he wont.

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See, i'm gay, and thats why i have a gurly user name, i am really a man! my boyfriend just broke up with me, and i am really depressed, i look so straight in gay bars no one aproaches me, what should I do!? please help!

Maybe instead of waiting to be approached you could approach someone. The worst that could happen is they say no thanks and you never see them again.

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there is this guy at my school, in my first period class that i really like. we have a lot in common and he's always been nice to me when we talk, and he thinks that i'm funny, too. the problem here is that his friends hate me. could his friends disliking me affect that he might actually like me? and if not do you think this guy does like me? i need help please!

His friends disliking you will most likely have a big impact on whether or not he chooses to like you. Even if he did like you he may not admit it as to avoid conflicting with his friends. If you guys were to ever go out then he would be constantly choosing whether to spend time with you or his friends as he couldn't have both. Do you really think he wants the hassle?

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