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There's this boy I've liked for a long time, since Bush won his 2nd term (I'm 13/f, by the way). Over that time, we've become pretty good friends. Yesterday, he asked me who I liked and I wouldn't tell, because I didn't want him to know. Especially considering the fact that he just got a girlfriend (he's also 13). Then he kept begging and nagging and kept saying that he wouldn't tell anyone and that he keeps secrets well (I know that for a fact, but still I didn't want him to know). After a while, I decided to tell him, because if he kept it up, he'd find out eventually because if it seemed that I sincerely didn't want him to know (even though I've trusted him with other stuff), the truth would be very plain. So I told him, and I said I was sorry. He's really really nice, but I'm really worried that he thinks I'm an asshole. I don't know what to do! I've never liked anyone in my whole life. Do 13-year-old boys usually think their friends are assholes in this kind of situation? How can I stay friends with him? CAN I still stay friends with him? This is long and will most likely get rated down, but I don't have anywhere else to get help! And I know that problems of a 13-year-old aren't as important as questions asked by older people, but this IS an advice site, and the site IS open to 13-year-olds. (link)
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I can sooooo answer this im the same way i can help you without a dobt im im in 6th grade and the bay i like is in 8th. hes good friends with my older sister and a boy i know in the naborhood. wellhes (the guy i like)is realy nice to me. you can tell if the guy u like likes you back when eather
A)you ask him
b)he tells u
C)you can tell if he shows more intrest in your friends and you,he will cut in on your confersations and aswer them be nice look at u and try to be near you as much as possibel
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Dear Advice columnists,
I'm going to get right to it. Ok, last year, I became really good friends with this guy that I met in my freshman year. He's like a cousin to me, and he's almost literally apart of our family (although he isn't related to us as I thought). Anyway, we used to wrestle, talk on the phone like a lot, and we used to be so close. And this year, my sophmore year, it's like I don't even exist. I know his new girlfriend and she wouldn't tell him to behave this way. My question, what's his problem. I've even asked him what his problem is and I've given him space. I've even helped that jerk on a project and he continues to act like a pain. I was sitting alone and he just didn't say a word to me. Others did but he didn't. He even went to another table, knowing that I know him better than they do, and talked to them instead of me. Yes, I'm jealous and angry. I try not to let it bother me. Will someone help me understand what's going on b/c I've tried. And I feel like something big is really missing now all of a sudden. Why is he doing this? Should I tell him to not talk to me at all anymore? (link)
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you know i relate to that only im a freshmin and the boy i like is a junior he is so nice rides my bus and he has a friend that lives in are developmet sorry off topic well simply ask him what his problem is in a nice way talk to him alone hopefully you can work things out!
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