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ok so theres this guy in my 6th period english
class his name is dakota well lately me and dakota have been playing footsy and stuff and yesterday in class or legs accidently crossed each others and when he seen that he jumped up really fast and we just laugh about it i'm starting to like him but people say he's a loser
and last time we got close and stuff he started blowin me off.im afraid even if he does like me he won't ask me out because he's the quit type and has never had a girlfriend befor so can anyone please give me some advice because im really startig to like him again . thanks in advance . (link)
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Honey if you like him and he seems to like you, go for it. But if you don't think he'll ask you out, be the first one toi make a move. If he says no, blow it off like that's ok and try to keep going on like before. But when you ask him out, to get rid of some pressure, ask him out as a friend. And if things go well, maybe you can go on a real date!
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okay so there is this girl who ive had problems with for a long time and i used to have this great way opf dealing with her, everything she said i would laugh at i blew her off like she was a joke and it worked. it pissed her off like crazy and she never messed with me. but somehow this year i lost myself and i let he step on me again. now she treats me like im a joke and makes fun of me constantly and i don't know how to handle it.
i tried everything. i tried working it out, ignoring her, fighting, talking to the school, fight, going back to laughing at her, and just confronting her but she is impossible to get through to she makes it this huge drama with everyone involved. but i don't really know how to anymore. i did this over a 2 year span so i really did my best at all of those options
she's causing alot of stuff for me i don't know how to handle it! she will never stop i want to make it so she doesnt get to me anymore but i don;t know how. what do i do?
i know this sounds really immature and stupid, but im 17 and pretty mature for my age, im really passive and don't like to fight but this just gets to me alot. (link)
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Oh man! That sounds alot like the situation I was in in school! Well one of the main reasons people are bullies is because they're bullied too. That's all they know. Now with that in mind, try to show her that what she says or does doesn't effect you. If she puts her hands on you however, you need to get that taken care of by the school or the police. But when she acts like that around you just act like you didn't hear her or just pretend what she just said was so stupid and immature. That's how I solved the bully problem in school for me. Hope it works for you!
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