Q: Hello, this is going to be silly because I am 18 and a freshmen is college but there's this cute boy that I see everywhere and I want to get to know him and talk to him but I am so socially akward that I just can't. There are these cool guys who tight rope, he ties his rope between two trees, gets up on and does tricks on it; flips and balancing on his palms. I usually get dinner and then go out and watch because they usually set up around 6:30. Two nights ago, I was sitting on the curb watching these guys, the cute boy walks past me to go to the dining hall and looks at me while he passes. He then turns back around to go back to his dorm, I think he forgot something, looks at me again as he passes. The third time, he passes he walks by, looks at me, says hey and smiles, I say hello back but he kept walking making the start of conversing impossible. I saw him the next day walking back from class, I'm not sure he noticed I was right next to him or not but he was on his phone so I wasn't going to try to talk to him anyway. I just don't know what to do, I'm fine talking to girls about random things and just chiming in on conversations but with him it's different. Please don't answer and say "it's okay, just talk to him, it'll be fine" because that's the whole reason I am writing this because I can't just walk right up to him and be like "hey cutie what's your name?" Haha, so please, any advice from guys on how they feel or girls that are like me in these situations, any help would be much appreciated.

Q: Me and guy A were best friends, we liked each other very much. But two years ago, guy B wrote a love letter to me, I was immature and curious so I started hanging out with him, we became very close and everyone thought we were dating. I never liked guy B. I didn't response to what people were saying, but I forgot to care about how guy A is feeling. Guy A started to ignore me, he believed that I was dating guy B. I thought he was just angry and didn't know until now that he was very jealous then. Last year, I moved to America to study there, I didn't contact them both until this summer when I came back for vacation. I invited some of my old friends for dinner, and they invited guy A. Guy A treated me like he didn't know me before, he must have thought that I wasn't the girl who he think I was. He must have been very disappointed. I really love guy A, I didn't stop loving him at all, but he didn't knew. I really regret what I did to him. It's been a year, so I know that he has already decided to move on. I am going back to America next week, and I want nothing more than a forgiveness. What should I do? Should I invite him out and tell him everything? Or should I just move on?

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