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You want a good answer for whatever your problem is? The truth? I'm not going to fluff this up any--you've come to the right place. So ask away, and I will answer with my best advice, as frank as can be.
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(1)what's the difference between friends with benefits and an open relationship? (is it just that with an open relationship, you're actually in a relationship while you can do stuff with other people and with friends with benefits you don't actually have a relationship?)
(2) why would someone even bother having an open relationship when they can just be friends with benefits?
1. The answer is basically what you said--and open relationship is usually when you're seeing someone but are allowed to see other people. Friends with benefits means you guys will mess around together but aren't romantically attracted to one another or want to date.
2. Usually an open relationship means you're romantically attracted to someone...but not enough that you want to date JUST THEM. This person is your main sweetheart but that doesn't mean you can't see other people or have other hook-ups. Friends with benefits is kind of more layed back and about the sex (or just kissing) than an open relationship is.
I'm kind of a non-talkative person. How can i be outgoing and be social to give people a great impression on the first day of school?
There's no way to become outgoing, but if you want to appear more confident, try striking up conversation with people you meet. For instance, if a girl you don't know is sitting next to you in math class, tell her you like her shirt and start striking up conversation--ask her her name and tell her about you and stuff. Ask people about how their summer went, too.
If people start talking to you, try to not give one-word answers. I know that when I ask people, "How was your summer?" I like hearing about what they did rather than "fun".
I hope that that helps! But remember--the only way to become outgoing and social and give a good impression is to be comfortable with yourself. You can't be comfortable with other people without being comfortable with yourself.
I love my boyfriend. He is the greatest! We talk all the time like on the phone and in school. We both never really talk about like holding hand and kissing and stuff like that. We've been going out for 8 months and we've never kissed, held hands, hugged! I'm in 8th grade and he is repeating 7th. I think we're afraid to do that stuff because he is my 1st bf and i'm his 1st gf. If we kissed, it'd be both our first. I really want to but he's afraid to, and that's why i haven't kissed him yet. Why are we both so afraid to? We both want to, but we just can't! Wht????
If you're not ready to kiss, you're not ready to kiss. It's that way with anything physical...from holding hands to sex. If you guys are afraid to kiss, a lot of people are scared about their first kiss. It will happen when it happens.