All of my friends always come to me for advice. I am pretty much the peacekeeper in my group. I know i have not been part of this for like any time at all, but i hope i can get bigger and help people with problems like i do the people i know. I will almost never say anything rude mean or annoying, but if i do withought thinking, just comment me and tell me so i can fix it!
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Okay, so this all started out as me and a friend..not a close friend, let's call her E, would just make fun of the different bands we like. Because we like totally different bands. Anyways, but one day she just freaks out and starts yelling out me. And that started this little "argument." Anyways, so she starts posting hate bullitens about me on myspace. And people were like "What the hell is going on between you guys?" But anyways, then on Friday my friend was talking to me and she said something funny about Gerard Way (the guy that E loves). And E hears this. So throughout flag football in gym she chose to block my friend. Well, on purpose, she pushes her down and starts laughing. But my friend wasn't going to stoop down to her level, so she just told E to stop acting so immature and walked away. Well, after Spanish class me and my friend were sitting by this brick wall shed thingy. But my friend was standing, anyways she was talking about how E was being such a bitch, and needs to get over herself. And E comes up to her and slaps her in the face, and then pushes her and makes her head slam right into the brick wall. And she laughs and walks away before we can do anything about it. So I'm really pissed, and today I go on myspace to check my messages, and I see I have photo comments, and I see that E's best friend, (let's call her L) is posting comments abut how I'm an ugly ass bitch. Then she comments me over and over again saying such things as "Ugly ass bitch, Fag, Loser, Fat, Everyone hates you, Goth, Freak, Witch, Go die, etc." And I'm getting tired of this. And on Monday she is "threating" to get into some fight with me and my friends. >_> I'm not scared or anything, but I'm tired of their immaturity and crap.
But I don't want to go and tell the principle or anything unless it really starts to get out of hand.
So what should I do?
Thanks! (link)
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I personally think that somebody pushing somebody else against a brick wall, is a bit serious. Like the other person said, block both of them on myspace and tell E and L that they need to stop because you are very sick of it. You could also tell the school counselor or like you said princeple! Hope i helped!!
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Okay Last night i went to my best friends dance party . and everyone was danceing with everyone and it didnt matter if you had a boyfriend or not we were all danceing close and jsut haveing SOOOO much fun. Well me and one of my guy friends we were dacing close and my boyfriend got mad and cussed and he said he was going to leave. Well he said you need to stop danceing with all those guys. and It made me mad! and he told me afterward that it was his two friends that made him mad at me but then today he told me it was because he was tired.(which i dont get) and also i was standing by the one guy i have known for a while and we were playing with each others phones and my boyfriend just came up there and pulled me away from him ! and he jsut cant trust me . . do you think i should break up with him . and i have already tried to talkk to him about it and he wouldnt listen !!! uhhhh he makes me MAD !!!! please help ! (link)
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I think that you are both at fault here. Just talk to your bf before dancing that close to somebody, tell him that it means nothing and that he's just an old friend or whatever the case. But he could have handled it better by confronting you when the song was over and just simply ask you what you were doing instead of jerking you away right in the middle of a song. Tell him how you feel about what he did and give him a chance to explain why he reacted so harshly. I know you gave some reasons and those could be it but just try going in a private comfy inviroment and talk to him about it! hope this helps!!
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I can't do this anymore. I go to a boarding school and I can't sleep at all at night because my roommate goes to bed at 1 am and her alarm goes off at 6 am. And she keeps walking in and out all throughout the night. It's annoying as hell.
Plus people are yelling and screaming in the hallways.
WHAT CAN I DO TO GET SOME FREAKING SLEEP?
please don't say "just talk to your roommate".
thanx. (link)
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Alrighty, you could try using earplugs. They will form to fit your ear and are normally pretty comfy. They do block out a bunch of noise. If you use an alarm clock, maybe you could use a cell phone and set the alarm on there and put it on vibrate so you will be able to feel it instead of hearing it. Hope this helps!!
I almost forgot, talk to your dorm adviser about it and see if they can do anything about it. Tell them that you have asked your roomates to be a little quieter but they won't. I'm guessing this will probably help.
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