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I am here to help you in anyway I can do in my power. I believe that it comes a time in life that we may all need some advice. And sometimes, you can't go to your friends, family, co-workers with certain issues so you come here. And it's very reassuring when you have some place to go. And people who will listen to you whatever subject it maybe.
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I'm tired of being the nice girl that everyone steps on; I want to change. But how do you just stop caring what everyone else thinks?
I go out of my way trying to please everyone and if someone doesn't like me it's all I think about, and i'll do just about anything to try to get into their good graces. I just hate when people don't like me.
How do you just not care what people think? How do you get over the petty girls in high school who hate you for non-existent reasons and just live your life and be who you are, regardless of who hates you for it?
I'vebeen where you are. And sometimes I still have to work on it. I use to always care what other people think of me and, I started to let that dictate mylife. I was real people pleaser, and sometimes I was unhappy because, I let people drain my all away from me. But frankly, you have to come to a point when, you have to really love yourself. And you have to think Gee I am who I am, and if someone don't like me, well you know where they can go. You are you'r own self, and by continuing to please others, you're loosing peices of yourself. How to get over themean girls who don't like you? Simply ignore them high school is short, and soon they'll be out of your life forever. You need to work on yourself and stop caring what evryone else think. From your words it seems as if you don't have the higest selfesteem. And that's something you should be trying to work on now. Because if not, it can affect you in the future, in jobs, relationships, with your children, an friends. Everyone can't be the most prettiest or even the most popular,but the important thing is to love and please yourself. Best of luck to you!
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