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Q: There is this junior in my drama class and he is so cute, and I'm a freshman. I caught him looking at me a lot once. But I don't think it meant anything at all. My lines in are play are directed to him... and it's a really nasty pickup line (out of the subject). Do you think that there is any possibility that he likes me? I mean I guess that I'm pretty attractive and I talked to him once.

He probably do but you know a lot of times in high school juniors don't date freshman same as seniors but idk age is just a number if he likes you he likes you so just continue to talk to him and if it's something there it will come out sooner or later plus it's not like he's grown he's a kid just like you.... Let me add that most of the time people don't date under their grade level because they are afraid of what people will think or say but forget them other people love is love crush is a crush I say take a chance you never know what will happen if something good that's great but if something bad we learn from are mistakes good luck.

Q: i need to know how to get on face book at school. but the system has it blocked so i can not. so can you tel me how to get on. i need to know something that will help me get passed the block at school.

try going to hellopancake.com it always works in middle schools but im not sure in high schools but try it and see how it gozz

Q: There's a kid in my lunch period named Jake. Every time I walk in the caf, I have to walk by his table and he looks at me, it's a look that makes me melt. He's adorable and my heart skips a beat when he looks at me. Anyways, when he looks at me, it seems like forever until we look away and I'm usually the one to break the glance. He does it to me in the halls, his locker is near-ish mine and he does it if we walk by each other. Also, today he turned around and saw that I was throwing my tray away so he got up and threw his away too so we would run into each other in the aisle going to the garbage, I know, romantic right haha. He's adorably cute if I din't mention that already haha (: so, do you think he thinks I'm cute or what, like why does he keep looking at me? Thanks.

The reason he keep looking at you is because he proble find you cute and he looks at you a lot so that you can notice him which you do and he wants you to know he notices you to now I think you should try to talk to him and a way to start is to just smile at him when you see him looking and then start to wave then soon you would start talking. Good luck

Q: I just want to know what the "look" is? Is it like "oh my, she's perfect, I want her"? I don't know like my one friend tried to explain it by saying you know it's the look because the guy's eyes will get softer and his face will get calmer. I don't understand. So, please explain it and explain if I know when I'm getting the "look". Thanks!

Ok so the look realy can mean two things.
One is like if a girl is giving you the look then she just realy don't like you and two if a guy give you the look it could be like he want you do any thing to get you or think your "HoT" the way you can teel the two apart is the good look would best be known as "The Eye" and the one that's bad is "The Look" but its seems he is giving you the eye. I would say jump on that.good luck friend .

Q: There's this boy I'm starting to like but we have no classes together so my friend tells him to get on facebook so we can talk and she tells him all the stuff but he never holds true to what he says he's going to do. Like Friday he said "I will most definitely be on facebook" and he didn't go on. I know I'm thinking to hard, maybe he got caught up in something and could not go on. My friend says everytime she says my name he smiles though. However, he can't talk to me. Why is that? Do you think he likes me? Thanks.

Oooh yeah he likes you but proble he don't have a computer at home or something.
I think you should write him a note to have you guys meet up and give it to your friend to give to him and mabe like right after class you guys could meet up and talk
I know that can be hard but if he like you he well come and that will also give you that answer (do he like you) so good luck.

Q: I don't want to go to school tomorrow, because, of personal reasons. So, I'm going to try & make my self throw up - any tips??

haha, don't even start with calling me stupid, because with the situation I'm in, I CAN'T go to school. Thanks a lot [♥]

One thing you can do other then throwing up is to rub under your nose untill it turns red and rub your eyes I heard that one always works. Sometimes you can even wake up late so they can think your sick if that is what your trying to do but yeah good luck friend.

Q: Okay, so I met this guy on the computer. We started talking alot and we got really close and started liking eachother but he lives out of the United States which is where I am but that really wasn't an issue because we talked all the time. Now, my one friend opened her big mouth and said that I was webcamming with my best friend, which I was but you know how when you webcam one person can have the camera open, yea that's what we were doing, I wasn't webcamming because I don't have one. So, now he is mad at me because I'm not webcamming with him. I told him numerous times that it wasn't me who was webcamming and he just doesn't believe me. What do I do? I also saw that on his facebook, he has lyrics to a song with -SS which are my initials. The lyrics were "take it back when she knows that your doing it right" what does that mean? thanks.

Ok hi I'm C.L.N, I seen your question and it drawn me because I'm kind of going throuhgn the same thing but yeah the lyrics of that song sounds like you can only get it from something he tells you so it sounds like he is saying some kind of mastake is being made by you or it can be that he's trying to get you to confert him. So try that and also try telling him how you feel about him mabe then he will believe you.

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