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I'm an loner sort of high-school student, that's the kind of person who observes everyone's problems from a distance and finds the solution right away. Not that there's an easy solution to every problem, that's in no way true, but there's always SOME option.
Ah...what else? Well, I have a passion for J-rock, and I love anime too much.
I'm also an artist (oekaki-er), though I suck.
I love composing songs & writing poetry, and I'm pretty good with computers. Ah, and I sold my soul for a piece of baklava. However, I'm an atheist (or ...what's the word, heathen?)...so in my opinion, I got free baklava!! ^_^
And I like ramen ^_^
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Hi I've been having mood swings lately and I am only 11 yrs old what would cause me to have moodswings? (link)
Raaaaaaaaging hormones, baby!
Enjoy it. Cause you're stuck with them for the next few years.


I like this guy but I don't know how to tell him. The only way I can act around him is like mean? What should I doand is this normal? (link)
Oh, it's normal alright...
What should you do? Well, act nicer for a while, and if he asks what's up tell him that...well, you sorta like him.
If he doesn't notice, then he's probably relieved that you're nice and doesn't want to jinx it. Tell him anyways.


@ my school, the hot guys only like the "popular clique" girls, i.e. the hot, snobby, breasty, bitchy, flunking, preppy, cool girls. i want to be noticed liked. i dont want to be one of them to be noticed and liked though. HELP! (link)
Ah...well, not all hot guys are shallow....
If they're only attracted to "those" girls (yes, we ALL hate them..) then they're not worth it. There's tons of other, really REALLY gorgeous guys out there...
Depending on where you live, of course...in my city, almost EVERY guy is good-looking. When I went to Quebec last week, I saw TWO guys that had decent looks. Only two.


theres this girl at school and i am way to shy to ask her anythin because i dont no wat to say or to ask or anything plz can u help me figure somethin out? (link)
Ooooh, tons of things ^_^
1) "accidentally" bump into her in the hallway, and tell her that her beauty stunned you..
2) start talking to her about some topic you both like, then when you're more comfortable with her, ask her out!
3) Just tell her: "Hey, guess what? I like you!"


Ok,
I like this boy in school. I guess he knows i like him because someone told him. He looks at me and looks away when i look back. Does he like me. Sometimes he ignoes me from all of my friends and used to flirt with me when we sat together, does he like me??? (link)
He might be unsure whether or not you're feeling the same way he does. That's a major probability...
However, he might just consider you as nothing more than a friend. *sigh*...guys. Can't live with them, can't live with them...


I found out last week that my ex- boyfriend likes me again. so we started talking to eachother and he said that I lied to him, but i didnt. so now he is really mad at me and hes not talking to me what should i do? (link)
Well...based on the minimal information given, let him cool down a bit...let him get over you. And if you like him but he hates you now...well, tough...ah...fruit.


HI, IM CONFUSED CHIKA. I HAVE A SREIOUS BUT LOL PROBLEM. THERE IS THIS BOY IN MY CLASS. I THINK HE KNOWS I LIKE HIM. eVER SINCE, HE STARES, AND WHEN I LOOK AT HIM, HE LOOKS AT ME WITH THIS LOOK IN HIS EYES. EVERYONE KEEPS SAYING TO HIM, " SO , HOW ARE YOU AND CONFUSED CHIKA DOING?". I FIND IT REALLY ANNOYING. HE ALSO USED TO FLIRT WITH ME AND IF HE IS STARING AT ME, AND I LOOK BACK, HE LOOKS THE OTHER WAY LIKE HE'S EMBARASSED. GUYZ, I WANT U TO ANSWER. BUT IF GURLZ CAN TELL ME, BE MY GUEST.!!! (link)
Guys are impossible, I guess that's the way they see us chikkas too...
The best thing to do is to talk to him about everything...if you're super-shy, then say something like, "Why do they all say we're dating? Maybe we should live up to their expectations"...
He probably knows you have SOME feelings for him, which is more than you can say for most guys.




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