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I'll be honest. I have plenty of friends.The problem is none of my friendships are very deep.Some of them I will get closer to and feel like our friendship is doing great, but then when any of their other friends are around they completely ignore me! But if I start talking to someone else because they are ignoring me, they will start trying to get my attention. What should I do? (link)
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Dear Self Choice,
You don't need the attention of others to make yourself feel good. It's important that friendships are not based on having attention or being ignored. You need to appreciate yourself first. Enjoy the people around you and make conversations but don't allow yourself to feel like if none are talking to you at the moment that it means you are not worthy of their friendship or they of yours. It's important that you never let yourself get sucked in to a place that makes you fell less worthy. Be positive and have a mindset that whether you are talking to friends, acquaintances or even other people that you know that appreciating yourself and being a good person will catch attention to others who will want to be around you more.
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