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About 2 years ago, my boyfriend at the time of four years broke up with me because I dropped out of nursing school and saw me as 'unstable'. He basically did me wrong and our breakup never had that closure. All of my friends and family knew what he did to me and they all think he's an asshole. Fast forward present day we both moved on and have new relationships. But a couple days ago, my cousin texted me and said that she saw him at a bar with him and his current gf. Apparently he was drunk and thought he saw me. And he also approached my cousin and kept grabbing her face and pushing her, asking if she hated him (I'm assuming because he knows that everyone close to me know what he did to me). Ever since we've broken up I've always wanted him to one day realize how much of a douche he was and understand how bad he had hurt me. Why do you think he kept asking for validation if my cousin hated him? Do you think he finally grew up and had an enlightenment? (link)
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Dear Ms. Closure,
It seems that what we have here is a tale of regret, remorse and ignorance. Looks like he regrets and is remorseful for the decision he made those couple of years ago. His ignorance comes from the actions he did with your cousin. What you need to realize is that his ways will correct him. The fact that you have moved on says that you were never meant to be with someone who didn't appreciate or support your decisions. You won't have to worry about closure anymore because if you learned anything here is that staying with him would have robbed you of the happiness you were meant to find now.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you! That really helped a lot and things are better for me now.
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