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I’m 16 and a female and I have had the same three best friends since junior high. In the past, we’ve all been inseparable. But recently, they have been ignoring my texts and hanging out without me. I’ve reached out to them asking if i did anything to offend them, but they’ve all brushed it off by saying “of course not” so I really don’t know what to do. (link)
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Those don't sound like good friends to me, I've gone through many phases where I thought people were my friends but they left me and hung out with the same people for years and even into our 30's they are still with those people.
Not that this pertains to you or not but I feel like you grow more as a person if you develop new friendships excluding ones from your younger years. It's all about quality too especially with how they treat you.
It sounds like you also tried to confront them- if they brush you off then they aren't your friends. At your age people care too much about what people think of them and they're catty and rude.
I hope they either come to their senses or you could move on. Try hanging out with other people- they might even approach you and ask you what happened? I would shrug it off and say I deserve better friends who love and value me not people who have double standards and are two-faced. It's also a rough stage where girls go through and sadly it never stops.
Teen years suck- I remember jumping around group to group and it was easier since I couldn't get caught up in the same people without any investment of feelings being involved.
I hope you can find some comfort in ignoring their crappy behavior and find better people to invest your time in.
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