Member Since: March 3, 2018
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Last Update: March 28, 2018
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Wanting a boyfriend has been occupying my mind all the time and it’s getting annoying now. Ever since I was 15 I’ve always wanted a boyfriend but I never got one only because I was too awkward and shy but the thought of having one didn’t occupy my mind almost every second of the day as it is now. It’s all I can think about, obviously I know I’m lonely and I don’t really have much friends in the first place but as I get older (I’m 19 now) I just want to be in a relationship not just to be in one but to have that campanionship, someone who’s there for you but more than in a friend way but in a romantic way too. I guess if I can’t fight the thoughts I might have to deal with it sooner or later and find a boyfriend but like I said I was shy and awkward but I still am. I’m very picky I don’t want to seem desperate or anything. Any tips on how to find something else to distract me from always thinking about a relationship or tips on how to meet guys my age without being scared to approach them? (link)
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Hi, It is quite natural to feel the need to be loved and cared for by the opposite sex in a romantic way. By your age, you are old enough to be in a relationship that shouldn't be sex driven but more of a romantic friendship. To overcome your altitude of been shy and awkward, you can start off on a social media dating site, it has the advantage of staying hidden in your comfort zone and gives you the freedom to exploit your inner self. Don't condone lust, you might feel that it is a way to satisfy the partner you have just met so you don't lose him, He is not the only one out there. Let him go if he wants sex from you, because there is a better guy out there that would adore and embrace you for been a woman of virture. Your search for the right man(mind you, there is nothing like the perfect man) is a normal thing for every woman in our world today
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Thank you for the advice I tried online dating before but a guy I met online gave me wrong vibes which I ended up being right about he was using fake pictures pretending to be someone else so it kind of made me not want to use online dating but I’ll try again. Thank You
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