I am a person who believes that negative criticism never does anything right and only demoralizes... I have been through a lot... but everytime I have fought back...There should be a certain way for making someone show the correct path...and I believe that it should be unbiased and free from personal grudges...this is what i am trying to do...where they will see me not as another columnist just trying to give advices rather see me as a friend whom they can rely upon blindly and be a support when they need a true friend...
But its a request not to use any abusive languages...
Gender: Female
Location: India
Occupation: Research scholar
Age: 28
Member Since: February 13, 2013
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well i been heartbroken over this guy named josiah for 4-5 years, we were close and almost dated. he led me on and used me til didnt need me anymore, and is my first love, kiss who lost virginity to etc. we ent from talking alot flirting etc to all sudden it stopped. idk why still, and foundout from someone that is married now. i tried sending a friend request on facebook, playing it off as dont have these feelings still, but denied request but didnt block. want talk to him so badly, as did have a miscarriage of his child and never griefed properly as kept it from my family cause they lecture me about having feelings for him tho thats not something i can help , tried everything i could think of to move on, and now in a relationship with lance, who treats me like queen do care for just not as much as do josiah. he knows had thing for him in past, as told him how he hurted me badly emotionally dont think it was intentional tho cuase he's best guy i ever knew before lance. what should i do? and want make my current relationship work though im just settling for lance since cannot have josiah like we were... (link)
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Why ponder over a married guy? why ponder over a cheater? You are lucky to presently have someone who treats you like a queen. He is the right one.
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thanks for advice, just josiah is my whole world its hard to not be enough for him. i have accepted will always love him and would been nice least be friends again.. and your right on having a good guy..and josiah is a amazing guy which weird he did what he did..feel something urging me to not give up on him as friend at least but not gonna bug constantly about it letting God handle it...thanks for the advice =)
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