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i've been in love with the same guy for about 3 years. we've been dating for a little over a year. we've *lived* together for about 4 years.
i used to always look forward to him coming home. and i've never been more sexually attracted to a person as i am to him. but lately i've become almost bothered by his presence. idk if this is a fluke thing or if i'm seriously just not into it anymore. we haven't been fighting or anything, i'm just kind of bored i guess. we haven't had sex in two weeks. and i relish my alone time more than i do my time with him. i've felt like i was losing interest before,( and i know this happens a lot in relationships, especially when people live together,) but i've always found myself getting over it and feel like we're lovers and best friends again. but for about a week now i've been using any excuse i can to not see him. i feel smothered and trapped. we just signed another year lease on our apartment. i don't want to hurt him though, he's extraordinarily sensitive and can act like a little bitch sometimes. which is also bothersome. i need a man, not a girl. idk what to do. maybe it will change in a couple of days or something but for now, i just want him to leave me alone. (link)
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hello.. Judging by your paragraph, you really have seem to lost interest in your boyfriend. but if things keep going that way, you have to take care of yr feelings and make them happy. u cant live like this forever and neither can he. so what i suggest you do is break it off with him but if u don't want to then you have to work really hard to fall in love with him again.. its only a matter of decision but trust me the sooner the better... Good luck!
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Thank you for your inspired and uplifting advice. You don't know how much I appreciate you. The other two before you upset me more than they should have. But I actually do have feelings and you made everything so much better. I only wish I could rate you a 10
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