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I am already working and I have this boss. He texts me even though it is work time and he always greets me and teases me. I think I am starting to like him. What should I do? Does he like me? He's only doing those things to me. I am afraid. I haven't had any boyfriend since birth. Please tell me what to do. (link)
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Office loves and relationships do sometimes happen. A regular employee and another regular employee flirting and maybe eventually dating is one thing. If something were to turn out bad during the flirtation or dating process the most that would happen is that it could become awkward, or tension filled with the possibility of people bad mouthing the person that they were with or telling about intimate or embarrassing moments.
When it comes to flirting or dating/casually seeing their boss is where things could become tricky. If your boss is paying more attention to than anyone else sometimes rumors start to fly around about what could be going on between you and your boss. It could become a little uncomfortable at work if other people start to pick up on him treating you special or anything. Let's say that he does like you and you two get together, what would happen if things turn out bad? When it's regarding your boss or anyone in a higher position than you that has the power to authorize disciplinary actions or termination of your employment things can become really bad, really fast. Say he would become irrational because you broke it off with him or something.. he may have the power to write you up, suspend you without pay, accuse you of things you didn't do or even fire you.
You really truly never know a person 100%. Almost every human being has something about them that they keep hidden. A lot of people also tend to show the side of themselves that they want you to see, or act a certain way in front of you. You could even be married to someone for 10 years or more and than one day find out something new like a dark past, illegitimate child, marriages you never knew about, crimes they've committed etc.. the list could go on.
My point is that you can never know someone and how they may react about certain things that could happen. It is always best to keep your work life and personal life private.. especially if it is a boss. There is a chance that if he does like you, that things could turn out great and be the best thing that's ever happened to you. But there is also the chance that things could possibly go wrong.
Just because he teases you and greets you doesn't always mean that he likes you in a romantic way. It could be something as simple as he thinks you have a great personality. Even though you think he's only texting you during work time doesn't mean that he's not texting anyone else either. I am sure that there are certain people that wouldn't make it known that their boss was texting them too.
If he were to start asking you really person things or saying things like, "Are you seeing anyone?" or "You're very beautiful." or "Let's go out for dinner or lunch together." Than their is a pretty good chance that he may be into you.
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