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Member Since: May 19, 2015
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Last Update: May 20, 2015
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so this girl at work she's been asking me to hangout with her she says since you go surfing let me go with you teach me how the sign that i can think of attraction is there so finally i got the nerve to ask her number waited about a week to call tuesday around 8.15pm called it ring at about 4times then i heard her talking then it just ended what is that all about waited a few minutes called again she didn't pick up what is that all about (link)
Sounds like she could be playing games. If you're into that they keep pursuing, otherwise don't bother because she could also be giving mixed signals. Also, don't always assume that just because she wants to hangout with you that it means she is romantically interested in you. She could just want to be friends or really want to learn how to surf. Not every approach from a person of the opposite (or same sex) always means that its out of romantic interest. If you have her number you can always let her know when you're planning on heading out to surf via text and give her the opportunity to respond. If she keeps ditching you, then she may that not that interested and you should move on. Getting hung up on someone like that is going to be a pain in the ass. Or you can always wait and let her ask you to take her surfing again at a time that she specifies.


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that is exactly what i thought that is why it took me a while to say yes to her to hangout to surely build attraction one time i showed her a picture of my friends and then she was like wow why was i not invited then i mention about a co worker of ours going surfing i mean shit you can really tell weather somebody that is interested when i said that its like a light bem on her eyes just turn on all of her action towards me its there action counts more than words its been a week now so i finally called up ring 4 times heard her voice then said on the phone called ended if you not interested your action tells me doesn't say your are not I've never heard of shit like or maybe i had a check a couple days ago called her 1 20 minutes later she called 2 left a message 2 today i saw her got to talk to her she was like i didn't know it was you it was a different area code but shit i don't know but just the main point is i know women test you with this shit to show how of a man you are or what you are gonna be when i am gonna be with you as long as i have self control the next time i see her and discipline that is all it matter but shit pisses me off




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