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hey, so there's this girl. AMAZING and i am so in love with her, and she has known for a long time. we have had drama and stuff about us, it all just seems like one messed up fairy tale waiting to come to an end. a few months ago, she told me that she liked me but wasn't sure if she would date me yet. i was fine with that answer and was determined to get her to love me the same, until the day she told me she chose another guy over me. that's when the drama started, but we've moved past that and she is still my great friend. Now she's thinking about breaking up with the other guy, but I'm not sure if it's for me. She said maybe one day soon her love for me will grow stronger, so I want to win her back. I even got into a fight with her bf tonight haha. anyways, i just need help on how to do it? i would prefer a girls advice please because i need a girls opinion on what they would do in this situation thanks and sorry that it's so long. (link)
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Hey! So I am a girl (as requested) and I think it's really cute that you're trying to win her back, but maybe fighting with her bf isn't the best way to go about it (lol). If I were you, I would wait and see whether she ends the relationship with this other guy or not. If she does then great, if she doesn't then not so great. If she doesn't chose to end the relationship then just let it be, I know how cliché this sounds- but if you love her as much as you claim you do, then you'll let her do what she wants to do- rather than trying to force her to be in a relationship with you. It sounds to me like she does love you back, but maybe she's scared of these feelings and started dating this other guy as a distraction, but I don't know as I'm not a mind reader. But if she does break it off with this other guy then don't jump straight into asking her out agin (unless she wants to date you straight away) as you don't want to be jumping relationships. Just ease back a little, and if it will be it will be, you can still be good friends and reminder her that your feelings haven't changed every so often, and see how it goes. I hope you two get together, and I hope this helped! :)
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thank you so much :) this really helped me out :)
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