Member Since: December 15, 2014
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Last Update: December 15, 2014
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Very difficult situation here.
I have a boyfriend of two years. I love him so much, he is the world to me.
About two months ago I cheated on him, while very drunk. I kissed a boy I'm in college with. Not for long but it was still unacceptable. Then later on that night, I ran into a male friend of mine (who is 100% gay) and kissed him for about two seconds, in jest. Naturally I felt awful.
I told him about the first kiss straight away, because I thought it was important to. He was mad and we had a rough time but he said it was ok because I told him about it.
At the time, I did not think the kiss with the gay friend was important. it has since started to eat me alive. And I don't know if I should say anything or stay quiet/
I think honesty is very important but on the other hand I don't want to hurt him more, over something stupid. Also, I think it makes it look like I will continue to cheat on him when I know I will not. I feel horrific, and I know I'm not deserving of this guy, but I really need some help.
Thanks. (Im 20 by the way) (link)
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I dont agree with the other people on here, kissing someone is wrong and i believe he deserves to know, tell him and give him the benefit of the doubt. He deserves that much. Everyone makes mistakes and lying is sometimes worse than crime itself. Tell him and if its love it may be fine. Dont look for excuses to get away with it. Truth shall set you free, like the saying goes.
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Thank you for being the one to encourage me to do what I knew in my heart was right. I did tell him, and to him it was no big deal, but he did confront me about being that drunk and at a party without him. He was right to be upset about that since I was putting myself in a place to make stupid things come true. You really helped me, thank you!
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