I completely agree with you that he is treating you like you are his toy - there to play with when he wants. Saying he doesn't want to go back out now but 'you might go back out next year' suggests this us his attitude very strongly. You should have far more self respect than to hang around for him to decided it's back on again. Take the power back for yourself and make the decision to move on.

In any event - I rarely advise going back to a relationship that didn't work the first time around. In my experience didn't work once normally means won't work twice.

Take care

Ashok

thanks for that and we broke up after something stupid and we both realized that and that's why we might go back out again its just with him I feel something different then I have in my other relationships he's special thanks for the advice it helped alot

As a teenager I was an avid advicenators user - hence my motivation to return as an older and hopefully wiser guy, who now has professional training in Hypnotherapy, CBT, NLP and Life Coaching.

My advice will always be honest and to the point. I won't chase high ratings by telling people what they want to hear if that's not what I believe they need to hear! Though your ratings and feedback are appreciated of course.

My mantra in my coaching work is to enable my clients to go confidently in the direction of their dreams and live the life they imagined. That's how I believe we should all live.

Ashok

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