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Q: I'm really really pissed! This relationship is long distance.
The man I ''Love'' I have to use it loosely,seems to not want to talk to me,and also there's a few other things I just dont like!
First off,he never calls me,we dont talk much!
He spends time going out to party,watching movies,hanging out with friends,going here,going there. And he barely pays any attention to me.
Its breaking my heart more and more and more.I don't know how much longer I can do this baloney!

Second.He is always liking sexy photos of models and women on his Instagram! I'm pretty too.I take sexy shots also.I give him enough attention.
I try my best........I give him all that I can.Im doing the best that I can.But it hurts me. Whedre am I in his life??
Am I some kind of virus that I dont count? What about me?? I should count! I should fucking matter! But I dont. I try to talk to him about him about it.No dice.But hey,I love you honey.I love you baby. Baloney! All of it is just a lie! And I hate him for that!
Here is what I look like.

http://instagram.com/p/u_OoCPSBYp/?modal=true

Am I so darn hideous or watever that Im not worth a phone call?? Hmmm??
Please my heart is breaking.Its become too much for me..........

Being in a long distance relationship is hard enough but it becomes way much harder when only one of you is trying to make it work.
I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes we just don't get the attention that we want and we wonder is something wrong with us? Are we not pretty or hot enough?
Over the years I learned that it has absolutely nothing to do with a girls looks (your very pretty btw). Your looks are not gonna keep a guy from cheating on you and they are not gonna change the way he feels about you and how much time he wants to spend with you. So bottom line is, if this guy likes you and WANTS to talk to you he will call you! Men are very simple and it is that simple.

My advice is, your young and attractive. You could have someone else in your bed in a heartbeat. Let him know that. He better work harder to make you happy.

Good luck.