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I'm 15 and I reccently began to masterbate. I started by fingering myself but it really gave me no pleasure. I stopped for a long period after that and then looked up techniques but I'm not sure if I've ever orgasmed or cummed. What I did tonight, I will never forget that feeling. It was my first time masterbating in about 6 months and I went and had a warm shower and sat on the floor while the water stream was directed at my genitals. I grabbed an electric toothbrush and used it as a vibrator since I cannot obviously buy sex toys. Anyways, I warmed up and loosened my body with my fingers. Then, I used the electric toothbrush and placed it in different spots around my vaginal region. Never inside my vagina though because that could cause infection right? But I kept moving it around and finally found a spot I assumed to be my clitoris (above my vagina), and pushed the toothbrush harder against it and the feeling is hard to describe but I'll try. When I found 'the spot', I found that my whole body was tending up and my mouth dropped wide open. It was hard to breathe and I felt like I was gasping for air. Then, something warm came out of my vagina I think and when i took away the toothbrush , my vagina was tingling for about 30 min. Is that cum or like an orgasm? And what does either feel like? Also, is that a good feeling to have or a bad one? I found it very pleasurable but I couldn't breathe which scared me.. Please help! (link)
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Sounds very much like you enjoyed a full orgasm to me. All your descriptions sound spot on. Your technique and the region you stimulated yourself also sound right on the money too. There is no real necessity to actually penetrate yourself. The most sensitive spot which is most likely to lead to an orgasm (your clitoris) is mostly outside, at the top...as you identified. And the rapid, quite high frequency vibrations of the head of an electric toothbrush share a great similarity with that of a sex-toy (a vibrator). It's obviously working for you, so no worrys...carry on. You might note that although commercially bought vibrators tend to be shaped like a male penis, that does not mean they are specifically meant to be inserted into yourself. Many women get much better results using them 'outside' in just the area you describe. Vaginal contractions during your climax are quite likely to make you extra wet and maybe 'ooze' a bit as you describe. Again, no problem. Tingling is all down to blood flow, nothing to worry about. You probably notice your 'bits' feel a little bit more 'plump' and darken in colour a bit during arousal and climax? That's the same extra blood-flow thing too. Mouth dropping open, a bit breathless and gasping? Again, all quite natural. It's your body trying to take in more oxygen to fuel those muscular actions that are part of the build-up of tension and subsequent release. Your orgasm, in a word. Nothing to be worried about. You won't black-out! The tension of anticipation makes yo breathless, the muscular spasms make you pant. On the emotional side, your climax will produce strong pleasurable feelings, it's all about neurotransmitters, think of them as 'brain fluids' if you like. Some have the power to make us feel incredibly excited, very pleasant, satisfied and so on. And your brain gets flooded with some of these 'feel good' fluids during your orgasm. The levels settle, this is DEFINITELY nothing to worry about...this is why it feels so good!! I guess you've noticed a lot of women getting a bit vexed about difficulty reaching a good orgasm, maybe in the posts here, or in womens magazines? OK, any woman can live WITHOUT one...but it feels good when it works eh? And you know what all the fuss is about now? Stop worrying. It's life-affirming, extremely pleasurable and satisfying, has NO negative aspects and it's just for YOU. Enjoy!! XX
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