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Last Update: September 12, 2014
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So I recently started college, everyone told me it would be a great time of my life and I would meet a bunch of new people.
So I have always struggled with making friends, and keeping friends, and I am very shy and never know what to say to people.
When I got to college I didn't really meet anyone here. I have met a total of 6 people that I talk to on a daily basis.
4 of them being students that live in my dorm
1 being my RA
1 being my roommate
I would like to meet more people, guys and girls (especially girls, what guy doesn't want that?) but I never know how to approach a group of guys or girls and I never know how to make small talk with them to get a conversation going. I noticed in high school most of the time I made new friends it was by accident or just luck that I met them. I never have gone out of my way to make new friends.
I would love any advice on meeting new people and getting to know them. Especially for girls lol I would love to meet new girls. But any advice will be appreciated as I want to get more social and be more out there.
thank you (link)
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SO MANY people struggle with this, especially when starting a new phase of their life (like college).
The simple answer is to just be yourself and find a club or two that share an interest of your's that way you'll automatically have something to talk about with anyone you meet there. Or you could also go to the different sporting events and share in the school spirit. Or you could find a study group.
Really, the opportunities are endless. But the important thing is to be yourself and really find something you enjoy because if you're not having fun the people around you will pick up on that and associate that with you not being a fun person and we all know that's not the case, right?
So, go out there, be yourself, and show off your great personality. Soon, you'll have more friends than you'll know what to do with. Just, don't neglect you studies...
Well, I hope you got something useful out of my answer. I also answered your question on YouTube, if you want to watch, it's at: http://youtu.be/Wu2dIrMNUKY?t=15m20s (the video is set to start right at your question so you don't have to sit through or fast forward past the others...)
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I will watch your video today and try your advice thank you so much!
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