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Q: We just broke up barely 6 months ago. We were together for 9 months and recently started seeing each other again for a few months.after brake up. He never mentioned seeing anyone else at all. We were together last Wed. and he proposed to her on Saturday? He told me in the beginning of the relationship he was over her as she had left town to be with someone else.I confronted him about being engaged and he was really cruel and cold and nonchalant about it! I feel I'm going crazy because I feel it's wrong to sleep with someone you know has feelings for you, and then a few days later ask another person to marry you? He feels he did nothing wrong because he didn't promise me a relationship but he also didn't make it clearly that he wasn't interested in working things out either.
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You could drive yourself crazy with this - thinking about it over and over and getting madder and madder - indeed you have started on this path already. Alternative is cut him adrift, shake yourself off, accept the past as is and leave it behind. Concentrate on your future. This is not a guy you want to be with or should be wasting your time on. You can think endlessly about him and the injustice of it all and feel sorry for yourself or move on with your life and get over this. The choice really is yours, you have the power.
Leave this guy and period of your life behind and concentrate on your future.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams, live the life you imagined,
Ashok
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It's easy to see the logical thing to do, but my heart doesn't agree. I can't stand this pain. I hope to get to this point soon.
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As a teenager I was an avid advicenators user - hence my motivation to return as an older and hopefully wiser guy, who now has professional training in Hypnotherapy, CBT, NLP and Life Coaching.
My advice will always be honest and to the point. I won't chase high ratings by telling people what they want to hear if that's not what I believe they need to hear! Though your ratings and feedback are appreciated of course.
My mantra in my coaching work is to enable my clients to go confidently in the direction of their dreams and live the life they imagined. That's how I believe we should all live.
Ashok
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Gender: Male Occupation: Entrepreneur also Hypnotherapist and Life Coach Age: 27 Member Since: August 30, 2014 Answers: 29 Last Update: January 16, 2015 Visitors: 3574
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