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My name is Sami.♥ Wherever life takes me, you'll find me with a smile. Feel free to ask me anything, I will give you the best advice that I can :)
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High school girl, sophomore and I weigh 253lbs. I'm told all the time that I look far older than I am and that my weight balances out pretty well and that I don't look as big as I actually am. Gym class this last year was torture for me because most of the guys were making fun of me the whole period for being fat. I've been made fun of since kindergarten. No one's really ever liked me. I've been in a new school for two years now and no one here likes me too much. Most guys avoid talking to me at all costs. So I wanna hear it from the guys, does anyone even like big chicks??? In the last three years, I've gone from being outgoing and bubbly to being too afraid to walk to the other end of the cafeteria just to dump my freaking tray because I'm paranoid and feel like everyone is watching me. Just wondering. Thanks in advance!
My first piece of advice is beYOUtiful! You are beautiful and it is all about what is on the inside and not always the outside. Let people stare, but have enough confidence in yourself to not let it get to you. I had confidence issues for a long time and it takes a lot of work with yourself.
Look at yourself in the mirror every day and tell yourself that you are beautiful and pretty. Do your hair differently or your make-up. Just things that make you feel better! I found that for me running helped me. It got released all of my frustrations and made me feel accomplished. Try to not care so much about what other people think. To be honest in a couple of years you won't see or talk to 90%of them and who are they to tell you that you aren't beautiful? You will find a guy, the right non-creepy kind of guy one day. Just be patient. Smile because you're you and there is no one else like you!
Good luck :)
(Rating: 5) It's been years!! Thanks so much for your kind response. I'm 20 now, and although 20lbs heavier (so much stress,) I'm in a wonderful 2 year relationship. You were right- I don't see any of them anymore. I've also learned I seem to have an anxiety disorder that was definitely negatively effecting me. Again, thanks for being so kind, young me needed it.
Love :)