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hey, am just a girl and am confused,
i hate my family for some reasons,
which is in my family they are so
protective, am from a big family
like i live with my dad, my mom
passed away 6 years ago but really i
can say i live in two house one
where my dad is there, and the
next one is where my grandma,
aunt live. and i have a sister which
is in college who everybody loves,
don't get me wrong i love her
too ,but the problem is when she
come everyone acts like i don't
exist anymore especially my aunt
she always makes me feel bad
about my self when she comes she
forgets me. am uncomfertable
around her, she ignores me even
when i say hi like am the adapted
child or something,i hate her for
that, oh... she see her like a
dimond, care for her but when it
comes to me she is just like do that,
and do this she doesn't even care if
am sick, am so tired of this, its so
stupid am a highschool senior and i
don't think that i deserve this and
the other thing is i don' t have
confidence with my self with my
looks evenso everybody says am
beautiful beacuse everybody sees
me as little for the reason that i am
thin, and have a baby face, i don't
have great hair or my hand is rough
everything about me i hate. and she
have everything that i don't have
and my aunt always tell her she is
beautiful but she never tell me that
i am, so thats not hard to guess how
i feel anyway i don't know how to
feel anymore so please help!!! (link)
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Dear,you sound a lot like me. Here's how you could deal with it. You need a distraction. I suggest taking up a sport or gymnastics or whatever interests you. Your family seems very unsupportive but don't let it get you down. I had the case of being worthless to my family if I didn't get an A in school. It went up to the point where they said they will give up on me if I keep getting a B all the time. But thanks to a wonderful friend and some free time activities,I endured it,now I'm on college and studying what I love. Whenever they complain about a grade now,I just calmly tell them to go take one of ny exams if they think they can do better. And they shut up. So stand up for yourself too,dear. It's hard and I've been there but you must not give up. And do find something along the lines of what I've suggested. I hope you'll come out of this as a strong young woman. You have my support.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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thank you very much, and you are funny too!
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