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Once I have anal sex and it didn't slipper to my vagina, am I still a virgin? (Stressed) (link)
It depends what your definition of a virgin is. If you believe that being a virgin means you have never had sex, then no you are not a virgin because you have had anal sex. If you believe that being a virgin means that your hymen is still in tact, then yes you are a virgin. Because, the only way a hymen can be broke is from vaginal penetration.

If you don't know what a hymen is then check out this link where you can learn about it.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymen

Either way you should NOT feel stressed about it. Loosing your virginity is a natural and normal part of life. It's part of your experience and you should accept and embrace that. The most important thing to consider when your having sex is that your doing it because you want to. No one should force you. Sex should be happening between willing adults. Secondly, you should make sure that you trust the people you have sex with. You should be able to speak to them about your feelings and they should respond in a kind and compassionate manner. Thirdly, you should practice safe sex or sex with a condom. A condom is the most effective way to protect yourself from an unplanned pregnancy or an STI.

Good luck honey, please let me know if you have any more questions. :)



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Thank you. I believe that I am no virgin now. Somebody said that if being a virgin is having a hymen still then boys can never be virgins. This is making much senses to me. I have now got the doctor say my rash is herpes since I did the anal sexing. :(




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