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My husband is in the military and after 13 years he is separating due to medical reasons. He wants to move back to our hometown to be near both of our families, primarily his mother and aunt. Well, I am hesitate. I didn't have the best childhood due to both of my parents being alcoholics. They both still drink heavily and can get violent and emotional when doing so. My oldest brother still lives in the area and drinks excessively as well. To top it off, my sister-in-law and her husband live about an hour away and love to drink and party and are somewhat open swingers. Their sexually active 15 year old daughter is free to do as she pleases and their 12 year old son is often left on his own. While I respect my husband for wanting to be near his mother and his disabled aunt, I am having a hard time dealing with the fact of being near the rest of our family. While it would be nice to be near family, this is not the situation I have envisioned. I don't want our children thinking drinking excessively and having multiple partners is okay. Should I accept the fact we are moving back and deal with the situation as it comes or continue trying to talk my husband into moving somewhere else? (link)
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don't move unless you want to be a full time mum. watching all your kids movement. again you must create a relationship with you kids let them know they can tell you anything. so that when there going wrong you will know. you have to educate about sex, drinking and all those things because they will still learn about them whether from you or their friends but it would be better if they learn from you. and when you are discussing with them about this things let them know they are addictive so it would be best if they just stay away. again when you telling them about this things make sure you don't hide anything with a lie so they will have no reason to doubt your words
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